December 3, 2012
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This Blog’s For You Fellow Xangans (Again)
This Blog’s for you.
Dear Xangan,
You might have been present at the inception of this blogging service, or you might have started blogging here yesterday. You may be incredibly wordworthy, a fantastic writer and master of the English language, or you may be from another country than I, and your language is fleeting, sporadic, and haltingly imprecise. You may be pretty popular here on Xanga, or you might be shy and intimidated by others you perceive as more experienced in the art of social networking.
You may be male, female, childish, rich in the throes of youthful abandon, or older, more experienced, and sure of yourself. You may be a master of HTML coding, and your blog is fantastically presented, with lots of groovy graphics and wonderful words. Or you may be “computer illiterate” and might not even know how to make a link.
The world is a big place, teeming with wonder and specialness. Before the internet, the various denizens of the world population pretty much had to keep to themselves and the souls within their close vicinity. Now, almost a couple of decades after the institution of the internet became a part of so many of our lives, we can use this great medium not only to find the answers to almost any question, but to find camaraderie and friendship all over this grand world.
The sliver of life which presents itself on your blog is unique and also universal. You may write about your daily routine such as it is, interspersed with family tales, photos of your pets, and good tidings for all. Or else you may be a bit snarky, with a strange sense of humor you find stimulated and goaded to perfection in this environment. You may think your boyfriend, husband, wife, special gal, dearly departed family member, goldfish, dog, cat, hampster, or ferret is the center of your personal universe, and this drives your musings , or else you consider yourself a true writer, chronicling the ongoing history of pop culture, or contributing to the arts and letters of humanity.
You may be incredibly religious, and you wish to preach the word of whichever diety you worship to the masses. Or else you are secular and scientific, regaling your audience with facts and figures inherently important to you.
You are funny. You are meticulous. You are sad. You are informative. You are a human being who has coupled with the technological advances of internet social networking so much that your blog is a part of you, and your readers can tell this simply by visiting your corner of cyberspace.
You could be blogging somewhere else, but you chose to become a Xangan, a badge which carries with it the promise of new friends, new experiences, and new connections, and perhaps the re-establishment of old ones. You may blog each and every day, spitting out bits of wisdom in your pulses. Or you may have no pulse, and might decide to only pen a few important words every two or three weeks.
You might be a staple of the “front pages” of the Xanga world, constantly looking for your internet fame and forturne, or you may keep to yourself, rarely visiting other blogs in the Xangasphere.
Dear, delightful Xangan. I sometimes think I know you well, and sometimes I don’t know you at all. You may be nakedly honest as an “individual”, or slyly invisible, preferring to act omnipresent in the community. You are all the parts of an incredible experience in world communication, whether you know it or not.
Thank you for your posts. They are the glue which binds your blog together, and which in fact binds the whole community. Thank you as well for your comments, those reminders that we are not only together as a people, but we sometimes agree, and sometimes disagree, but that doesn’t stop us from continuing the conversation.
I wrote a poem a long time ago called “Thank you for you.” I wish to dedicate this sentiment to you, the eternal Xangan, whether you are here right now reading this, or whether you left in the past and will never glimpse this tribute to your blog’s ongoing existence.
It’s not the words or the pictures. It’s not the videos or the coding. It’s not the toolbars or the modules or the themes which are important in life. In actuality, it’s not the blogging service or even the internet which binds us. It is our humanity, our shared existence as humans which matters most in our lives. The internet, and Xanga in particular, from my standpoint, have helped, and are currently helping to foster good will and friendship amongst humans. And this is important.
Dear Xangan, thank you for being a part of this individual life. This blog’s for you!
Yours most respectfully,
Michael F. Nyiri, poet, philosopher, fool
I like to trot out this piece every now and then. First posted in May of 2009 and again in August 2010, it’s amazing to realize it was that long ago I posted it last. Lots of commenters from each instance are still “here.” Up there in my header, it states: “The personal and universal thoughts, feelings, and observations of Michael F. Nyiri, poet, philosopher, fool.” As long as I’ve been writing, I’ve embraced the possibility of interconnection of humanity, and even while personally alone, I embrace the idea of social networking, which allows humanity to connect to each other in ways unheard of during my youth. I’ve been seeing a bandwagon or meme asking Xangans to write about who “keeps them here.” I plan on creating a post sometime this month listing a bunch of “@xangans” I’ve admired and corresponded with over the years, as part of my “year end celebration” but until then, hope everyone who blogs here feels special, admired, positive, and loved by the community. My depression is lifting, and I’m about ready to “take my rounds” again, visiting those wonderful Xangans who keep returning to my own humble blog, and leaving such wonderful words of inspiration in their comments. MFN/ppf
Comments (11)
Nice! Thanks for sharing this again. I share a lot of these thoughts about teh interwebz too. Xanga does provide a great place for people to “connect” regardless of their skills and background. I do love to read about the sometimes mundane things that often shape people’s lives. Mind you there are still a few here who seem to think that one should only be here if you conform to their ideals.
This really is a lovely piece, one of my favorites.
Glad to hear your depression is lifting!
This is the most beautiful and most heartfelt post. Thank you for giving us quality posts. You look very handsome indeed in your Santa suit.
Thanks for the reminder that even when we don’t always have much to say, being here is still a worthwhile experience.
I am so glad your depression is lifting and that you may be joining us more often~
Beautiful piece to all us mangy varmints, thank you.
And thank YOU too for being an awesome part of Xanga!
Thank you for sharing or re-sharing this post. It is very thoughtful and very well written. I think it is good that you did not fill it up with graphics (although designing layout with graphics is one of your many talents). You just put the words out here to stand on their own. I determined when I began my blog that I did not want to take my time to make it be “flashy”. I figured I would not have the time to be “dinking with it” and changing in terms of background as some do. As it happens, I was right about that. I have given up on expecting much readership.; therefore, I decided to not worry about visiting other sites in order to get readership. It hasn’t worked that way, anyway. So now, I just reciprocate with those who continue to connect with me by visiting and making some comment (although footprints tell me who has visited). Right now, because I’m working on the “Thirty Days of Gratitude” theme, I do post every day (or almost) However, after I reach day 30, (which will come approximately at the end of next week), I want to revert to finishing up with Proverbial Wisdom, but posts will be less frequent. Although many of my Xanga contacts have gone to Facebook, I am grateful for friends that I have made here because I can continue on FB. I am grateful for you & others who continue to share yourslves and your lives, here. Also, Mike, I am glad to read that your depression is lifting. ~~Blessings ‘n Cheers
Got the BD wish! Doesn’t matter about the timeliness. Thank you for it anytime! ~~Cheers
Thank you for giving us the Xangapedia. I enjoyed your posts and your outlook in life. I used to blog for attention and drama, now I just blog for myself. You put me to shame, Mike. You share everything about your life and more, you gave us a glimpse into the past. Your site is always a good source of knowledge and entertainment.
It’s good to have you around.
Beautifully said. Thank you. Expresses my heart exactly
this is just what i needed to see here