October 1, 2009

  • Featured Grownups: Frugality during the Recession

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    Featured Grownups is asking us for advice on GETTING THRIFTY.

    "How has the economic downturn affected you personally?  What changes have you made in your life to save money, pinch pennies, stretch your dollars?  What thrifty tips can you share (places to shop, coupons to use, places to eat, etc.)?"


    Disclaimer: I live in the state of California in the United States of America, a worldwide region known as "the breadbasket of the world." In some Asian, Latin American, and African countries, thousands of people go hungry every day. For them, the "great recession", as the current "economic crisis" is becoming known in the media, is something that's far distant from their daily lives, where poverty and malnutrition are the daily watchwords, and where dying from hunger is also a daily occurrence. This "great recession" is hurting a lot of people in the more affluent nations like the one in which I live, but pales in comparison to the actual state of "depression" occurring in the world at large. As we "pinch pennies' here in the states, and complain about our misfortune, and blame government, economic trends, and the stock market, we sometimes forget that there are places where the vast majority of people are strarving to death.

    I've always told people I've led a charmed life. This isn't exactly true of course, because I've had my share of bad luck and depression, have lost my parents and friends to the grim reaper, and have suffered ill health and broken bones. Throughout this life I've lived, and hopefully will keep on living for a while longer, I have tried to make light of the personal disasters which have befallen me, and I always search for the best things life has to offer.

    I make a good living wage. I have excellent healthcare benefits. I own my own home, and the payments are low. I always tend to find a way out of most emergencies, and I enjoy the fruits of my labors, eating well, and being entertained in the best possible way. I'm a single senior, and have never married. I don't have children, so I don't have the many expenses which are a result of raising them. Sure, I have to pay more for a "single" room in a hotel than a double rate, but at least I have been able to afford staying in hotel rooms when on vacation.

    I really don't consider that the "great recession" has made that much of a difference in my personal life. It has made a difference to the place in which I work, I surmise, because nobody in the company has gotten a raise this year, and we had to lay off two people and change one employee's status from full to part time. In a family owned company which now only has 18 people employed, I feel that part of my "charmed life" is having a job at all. I could lose it in a moment, because in the electrical industrial market, in which I work, our company thrives on orders, and lately, there haven't been as many as in the past. We have lost customers before, however. And we survived. A lot of what I see happening during this "great recession" I have seen happen before. There have been stock market crashes, followed by "adjustments", and there have been bubbles which get so big they finally burst, followed by more "adjustments." In the United States, the free market economy sometimes is stimulated, and sometimes is depressive. As my old economics professor used to say, with a flourish of his arms as he explained, roaming about the front of the classroom, "Up-swing......Down-swing."

    I admit that if I were raising a family, I'd be worse off than I am now. Who knows. I can only attest to my own situation as it stands. Although perhaps the "global recession" isnt' causing me to be more frugal in any way, I am finding that I have to be, because  I am surviving my own "personal recession".

    I got myself in trouble charging those hotel rooms I mentioned earlier to credit cards. I got myself into a $40,000.00 credit card debt in only a decade, one in which the market was a bull one, and the company for which I worked had lots of customers, lots of orders, owned two buildings, (one of which we had to sell) and employed over 40 people. 10 of them worked for me, as techincians building the control panels we sell. This "personal bubble" found me using (and abusing) credit, purchasing computers, big screen televisions, vacation stays, expensive meals, etc. etc. etc. I naively thought it would last forever, or at least longer than it did. When this bubble burst, and the credit cards began raising their rates, I found that I was living a lie in which the amount of money I spent each month was more than the amount of money I made. Most of my bills were for credit cards.

    Now I feel I'm a bit smarter than I was then, and while the "great recession" rages around me, at a time when I should be planning for retirement, I am living paycheck to paycheck, looking for more ways to "save money", or more succinctly, to just not spend any more than I have to.

    Here is what I've done in the past year to pinch my pennies.

    1. I stopped eating in restaurants. As a single senior, I felt I was always getting a good deal, and I never cooked nor ate at home. When I bought my mobile home earlier this year, I began to spend a lot of time in the kitchen. I'm learning to cook, slowly but surely. Instead of taking over $100.00 a week out of my checking account to pay for meals, I'm taking only $60.00 or less out, and shopping at stores like Food 4 Less and Big Lots, which coincidentally are across the street from each other about four blocks from the mobile home park. I can now go a whole week without even reaching into my wallet.

    2. Because I don't drive around to restaurants, nor even go out much on weekends, I'm paying less for gas. (which is just over $3.00 a gallon in California) Granted, I don't get out as much as I used to, but until I can get myself in a "positive" economic situation, where I can save money enough to lower my debt, instead of just pay the interest on the loans, I will have to suffer this gladly. I'm getting better gas mileage too.

    3. I don't use electricity unless I have to. I wash large loads of clothes. I keep my refrigerator and freezer stocked. I use energy saver appliances. I'm watering the lawn only once a week. It's a bit brown, but I'm saving on utility bills. It's getting a bit cooler now, but thank the Lord I live in Southern California. I shouldn't even have to use the heat until December or January, and then I'll only use it when I absolutely have to.

    3. I love to watch movies. I pay a monthly fee for Netflix and DirecTV. I don't have any premium channels. I find that between the two services, there are plenty of entertainment choices, and my queues are always filled. I also cancelled some of my internet services, like a yearly fee to maintain a website I hardly update anymore. My main site is still online, and I negotiated a better deal, saving me $300.00 a year.

    4. Because I'm older, I'm not as fashion concsious as I once was. I buy most of my clothes via mail order, and buy shirts in bulk. I enjoy wearing western wear, so I shop at Sheplers, and purchase either "stripes" or "plaids". In this way, I save $5.00 per shirt, and only need to buy 10-12 shirts every two of three years. Underwear I usually get at KMart or Big Lots. Big Lots is a liquidator. The chain buys discontinued or overstock merchandise and sells it heavily discounted. I save lots of money there.

    5. I spend more time at home. I already have lots of movies on DVD and laserdisc. I have thousands of record albums and CDs. I have books I still haven't read. Why go out and spend money I don't have when I have so much I already bought?

    6. Thanks to the fact I live in a senior mobile home park, I can socialize with the people in the park. This summer, I met lots of new friends and neighbors, so there's always someone to talk to. My immediate neighbor is becoming a great friend to talk to. By socializing close to home, I don't need to drive anywhere, nor spend money in most instances.

    While I'm practicing as much frugality as I can, I know that everything comes and goes in cycles, and at some point in the future, I'll be much better off than I am now. My latest "five year plan" is that I'll be completely out of debt by that time.

    So I thank God and my lucky stars that I'm in good health, and have the smarts to be able to be thrifty. And that I don't live in that part of the world where people spend their lives just trying to get a bite to eat.

    Here's a fun (and thrifty, cause it's free) way to feed the world, and expand your vocabulary at the same time!

Comments (69)

  • Netflix is a great deal, isn't it?  I think new rentals at Blockbuster are around $5.00 at this point...Netflix is a much better deal.  I go to the library a lot too...they have lots of TV on DVD now, which I love. : )

    I've got a stack of books I still need to get to...I'm addicted to my local used book store--also tend to go a little crazy for the 25 cent book bins at yard sales too. :)

  • I'm betting that with your determination, frugality, common sense, and perseverance, you'll you'll pull yourself up by your bootstraps. You've got a great attitude and a positive outlook on life--a valuable asset.

    Sully

  • Good tips on saving the money! We all could use your advice and experience.

  • Excellent post! I love your list of pinchin' pennies tips! I try to do some of the very same things! I really enjoyed reading this!

  • Love your post - you sound like you have a great view on life :sunny:

  • I have also been posting on ways that I am saving. These are some nice new ones to try.

  • Great post, Mike.  Glad to know you're not as bad off as some people, but this is sure affecting all of us in some way or other.

  • Great post Mike. Lots of good tips in here too.  While I'm here, I might as well mention this. I saw a medical study the other day that showed  that people that were born/brought up during the "Great Depression" back in the 30's - live 6.5 years longer than the average person. Maybe being really fugal and watching what you do with $ has even more benefits than we know about. :fun:  

    Thanks for such an imformitive post!

  • Hi Mike... i came here on Umnenga's rec, and i'm glad i did. Excellent post! The only way we're going to get on the right financial track is to give up our "Poor me!" attitudes at having to do without the things we THINK we need, and get rational about our spending. You've certainly got your head on straight. Preach it!!

  • Great tips!! Thanks for commenting on my site

  • Sounds like you are on the right path!

  • :love: you have made a lot of changes in the last year or so and it sounds like you are a bit happier and less worried bc of them. wishing you more good years ahead! :) but feel that you'll land on your feet regardless of the circumstances! :)

  • I love the Free Rice site, but I haven't thought about it for a while and I don't think I ever bookmarked it - thanks for reminding me about it!

  • As you said, things happen in cycles. Things will surely get better.

  • great tips...smile

  • I really appreciated your disclaimer. In the US I think we have a really skewed perspective on poverty. I teach in a school where everyone qualifies for federally subsidized lunch, and yet, everyone has at least one television, most have cars, and every family has a roof over their heads. In many nations, only the most wealthy are fortunate enough to have any of these. I think that, especially in times like these, it's good to remind ourselves how materially blessed we all are. Thanks for the reminder.

    I, too, live in Southern California. We bundle up in the house in the winter and only have to turn on the heater a few times a year. Right now I can't wait for the fall-like weather the forecasters have been promising us. I'm ready to bust out the sweaters!

  • Don't quite know how a good looking man with your wit and wisdom managed to stay single, but it sounds like you're on a good path.
    Thanks for coming by and for the comments. I shall return for more of your thoughts, feelings and observations, whether they be poetic, philosophic or foolish. :littlekiss:

  • I have to admit that you have a very strong will, Mike.. I can't last on my salary alone yet...

  • Glad that you're learning how to cook. Moving into your Little Home was a great decision, Mike. It's certainly been a changeful, but good, year for you.

  • :wave: Hey Mike! Sounds as though you are doing a lot of things that are cutting your expenses. Good on you! :goodjob:

    I relate to not having to be so fashion conscious. The only reason I buy something new now is if something I wear a lot is wearing out or when some jeans or slacks I have no longer fit me, and I need to get another size. I find that, at my age, what I wear is not that important to me as long as I feel comfortable in it and it's clean. I dress for myself, not for others. I will shop at Goodwill, Thrift stores and Walmart to get bargains on clothes and accessories. I very seldom eat out. When I do, my friend covers my meal.

    In addition, I decided I don't need to use AT&T on my regular land line for LD service. It's an extra nearly $6 expense a month plus the cost of the LD call. I have a LD card I can load and use which amounts to 5 cents/call or I can just use my cell Go-Phone for LD. I pay for 3 mos. service at a time and that works out to less than $9.00/month for all calls. If I reload before the period runs out, any $$ left is rolled over. Plus I get a "loyalty" amount added to the accout. I think Go-Phones by AT&T are the way to go if you don't need it for anything except calls (although mine has text capability which I don't use.) I discovered that I could call my electric company and tell them my rate is too high and they will give me a cheaper rate.

    Personally, now I'm thinking control over spending is good to practice regardless whether the economy is in a recession or not. It would free up money for more saving and also to be able to donate to charities to help others.

    ~~Blessings 'n cheers

  • I think that is what it's all about-getting to know your new neighbors and enjoying life.

  • I think it's great that you are finding ways to feed yourself at home instead of having to go out and pay not just for the meal but for the tip as well. I also liked the way you led into the post by pointing out that there are people in other countries who are having to survive on more meager options. I am sure that what we'd decide was thrifty or austere living, they would really desire to have!
    justme
    cm

  • :goodjob: Sounds like you're doing well! Glad you're off the crutches now.
    The photoshoot pictures are interesting, I hadn't heard of most of the places before.

  • Eating out every night does cost a lot, doesn't it.  I'm surprised that it only cost you $100 a week.

  • Great post!

    I would try some of your tips, especially the socializing close to home. I feel that I don't know our neighbors because I'm always out.

  • Great ideas for saving money!

  • Great post Mike!!:goodjob::goodjob:

  • Wandered in here from Featured Grownups. I like your style of writing, and of putting in common sense. When I was young, I had a similar way of looking at it all. When I got older, I went and made it "complificated", to coin a term my youngest used to use. It took me quite a while to get back to cents and sensibility, but I'm finally catching on. Let's just say I overspent on money I was "sure" I'd have tomorrow, before business began to slow to a crawl. Seems we both lived a charmed life.

    Buying clothes that actually last is less cost-per-use than picking up things that will fall apart within the year - you do great with that one. I've also found that Redbox rents movies a dollar a day [just make sure to get it back on time]. I've heard of others who have taken to streaming movies online from Netflix and other services; I know my friends and I had wired a mutual friend's computer to his television set and, though just a shade grainy, watched movies together with everyone throwing in towards his amazon account for the movie [and with each participant putting in a bit of something to eat, as something of a potluck gathering]. The biggest part of it all is about people finally figuring out how to live interdependantly - from piling everyone into a single car [I've no choice, I work out of town], sharing what we have [never a drop of food waste], and enjoying the camaraderie while we weather out the storm. To me, eventually, I compared it to when we pooled together, when I was a kid, during Hurricane Elena.

    So far, so good.

  • Lots of great ideas!

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