July 23, 2012

  • In Memory’s Thrall: A Wayback Post

    This blog entry was originally written for a participatory blogring back in 2008 on the subject of  “I REMEMBER WHEN. . .Here’s a sample: I remember when penny candy really only cost a penny!”

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    Both the above magazine covers deal with the subject of “penny candy”

    Invariably any story about the past always includes the quantification of goods and services. When I was born, for instance, in 1953, during the “baby boom”, when the country was flush with optimism following WWII, a loaf of bread cost 16 cents. Milk was 94 cents a gallon. A new car could be had for less then two grand. A house cost less than $18,000.00. Stamps were 3 cents each.

    How grand. How inexpensive, everyone always marvels. A new car for less than two thousand dollars!! My, everyone must have been rich in the past!

    Of course, everyone wasn’t rich. I don’t personally “remember” what things were like the year I was born, but prices were pretty low throughout the time I was growing up, especially compared to now. However, the yearly average income during that time was less than $5,000.00 a year, or more succinctly, 75 cents an hour. Whenever you read about the worth of something in the past, it is always “adjusted for inflation”. Goods and services keep getting more and more expensive. During the 50s, as I spent my childhood with no real thoughts of financial security, owing to the fact that we lived fairly well, everyone around me seemed to be doing fairly well too. As I was growing up, here are some things I remember.

    I remember when neighborhoods in Southern California were constructed of single family ranch style homes, separated by wide yards filled with trees and flowers. Nowadays the neighborhoods cram as many “McMansions” on a single plot as is possible. The houses are huge, usually two or three stories, but have no discernable yards at all, and one can almost touch the wall of the house next door when reaching out a window. In the 50s, a lot of neighborhoods were brand spanking new. The homes were rambling one story houses with a living room in front, and a den in the back, sometimes overlooking the pool. The neighborhood where I spent the late 50s with my parents and younger brother and sister was not newly constructed, but was on a cul de sac overlooking the Pasadena Freeway, the very first freeway in California, which had only been constructed about a decade earlier. The complete street and all the houses are gone now, replaced by a block of apartment buildings in the late 70s.

    I remember when some goods and services were hand delivered to the homes in the neighborhood. Milk came from the milkman, and was in bottles. In the early morning, you could hear birds chirping and the clink of milk bottles as the milkman made his rounds. Each family placed their empty bottles in the milk box (first made of wood, then plastic, before it disappeared altogether.) and set it outside the back door. In the Los Angeles area, we also had home delivery from the Helms Bakeryman, who always had fresh breads and pastries. At 4pm after school, the Ice Cream man would drive slowly up the street, and if we were good, Mom would let us have a nickel and go get something from the Ice Cream truck. (My memories of ice cream are especially sweet, because besides getting treats from the Ice Cream man, my father worked for Popsicle Industries, so we were always getting free popsicle treats at home brought from my dad.

    I remember when the television, which was still in it’s infancy as an electronic hearth, was not the most important piece of furniture in the house. We never had a real hearth, but our television in the 50s had doors on it you could shut closed, and nobody would know it was there. I remember singing hymns with my family on Saturday nights, reading the lyrics from Hymnals borrowed from the Baptist Church. A lot of nights instead of gathering around the TV, as a lot of familes did back then, we would perform skits and sing songs for our parents as audience during family entertainment evenings.

    I remember when time didn’t go so fast. When we are young, a year lasts a long time, especially when you’ve only lived 9 or 10 of them. I remember waiting for two long years with the anticipation of driving a car when I was in high school, and then using the $100.00 in allowance I’d saved since childhood to buy one in my junior year. Gas only cost about 39 cents a gallon in those days. During college, our close knit group of guys would go on “cruise nights” where we would circle the same eight or ten block stretch of Valley Blvd. in Alhambra or Whittier Blvd. in Whittier over and over again, looking for adventure, chicks, and fun on a Friday night. We never thought about “wasting gas” when gas was plentiful and cheap. (That said, I clearly remember the first “oil crisis” when gas shot up over a dollar a gallon, and you could only get gas on “even” or “odd” days depending on your license plate number.

    I remember when movies were shown in a single theater, and there were matinees on Saturdays which showed not only a movie but a series of short subjects. There was a balcony in the theater, and some kids would throw things like popcorn and jujubes at the kids below from the balcony seats. I remember when movies would not appear on 4000 screens at once. If you wanted to see a film when it first came out, you had to go to Westwood or Hollywood and see it in the one theater where it played sometimes for a year if it was making money. I remember waiting for 3 hours to get in to see The Exorcist in 1973. (One of the early “blockbusters”) 90 minutes to get the tickets, and another 90 minutes to get inside the theater.

    I remember singing Christmas carols in the Christmas Pageant at school before there was any flap about “Christianity vs. Secularism”. We also proudly pledged our allegiance “under God”.  Church and school were separate, but the idea of “God” seemed to be more all encompassing in the past. There weren’t too many upset atheists where and when I was going to school.

    I wish I could say I remember a time when things were better, people were safer, and life was always good. This is not the case. I remember very clearly when a President was assassinated. I remember civil defense sirens, and having to supposedly escape certain doom during an atom bomb attack by diving under our “desks” at school. Since the “desks” were nothing more than a one and a half  foot square piece of fomica glued to a metal stanchion and one whole wall of the school building was made of glass windows, this never felt right, even when I was 9 or 10.

    No matter what we can remember, no matter what we choose to forget, time goes on, things go from bad to worse to better, and then back again. Life goes on. The wheel keeps turning.

Comments (10)

  • very true, there’s a tendency too look back and think things were great but we still have the same problems, things never really change that much. good post!

  • That was awesome! the good old days. I don’t know, somehow there is a sense of innocence during those days which is not there now. There was a sense of freedom then… and not there anymore. 

  • I think all the electronics are what makes people so sick and crazy these days, for real.
    I wanna build my ass a cabin in the woods and get all the poison outta my mind.
    Feel me?

  • Sure, I remember milkmen – my Dad WAS one! Sometimes I got to go with him in his truck, which would have been scary since there was no door, but it was okay since my Dad was driving. We had a lot of ice cream and chocolate milk.

    I think maybe bad things still happened back then, but there was also a little more good in the world back then.

  • I remember back when we write in real paperback journals. How times have change.

    Great post, Mike.

  • I certainly remember penny candy & fondly. It so happens that I came across a Scottish song that I learned and included in my repertoire. The song is “Coulter’s Candy”. It’s all about the candy that may be purchased from Coulter, the candy man for a “wee bawbee”, which I loosely translated as equivilent of a small ammount, such as a penny. This reminded me of my childhood experience of buying penny candy from the “confectioner’s store” across the street from my childhood home. The owners of the store had immigrated from the Ukraine. Their granddaughter and I went to same elementary school. I grew up during WWII, which was a trying time, but patriotism was high, and I remember “victory gardens”. I also remember fears of bombing and the times when we had “brown outs” at night. The “cold war” time brought with it even more fear. I knew about the “drills” in schools and children huddled under desks. I personally was more fearful during the “cold war” due to availabilty of atomic bomb than I was during all of WWII. Certainly, bad things happened “back then”, but my sense is that they didn’t occur with as much frequency or repitition of events such as the one on July 20th. The explanation that communication is so instant these days doesn’t quite cover it for me. ~~Blessings ‘n Cheers

  • @angys_coco - I know there is a certain amount of nostalgia connected in looking back to “the old days”. However, it does seems to me that life back in my childhood was less complicated and a bit more carefree — in spite of World War II and “the cold war”.  BTW: Thanks for your comment on my post.

  • Speaking of living in a cabin in the woods….. That’s where I’l be for the next couple of months; but fortunately we now have electricity (we didn’t for the first twelve years we summered here) and I have this neat wireless modem so I can write about the good old days of polio, the depression, and The War  (if you don’t know which war was The War, you are fortunate)

    I do find it fascinating to read about your “Good Old Days” which I think of as only yesterday.

    A thought: Cut old folks some slack – they are living in a world they probably did not imagine and probably don’t especially like. One of these days I’ll probably be joining them – but not quite yet.I was born before Roosevelt was president (Franklin, not Teddy)  

  • @tychecat - Dear Dick,
    Jack, the CEO at work, and one of my “surrogate fathers” over the years, just turned 89. He suffered a stroke a few years ago, and is doing as well as can be expected. Until he had the stroke, he was coming into work every day and conducting business. When I joined the company, in 1988, fax machines were just replacing telexes at the office. When we got a computer system in 1996, Jack was completely stymied by email. (He didn’t type well, had atrocious handwriting, which of course doesn’t get better with age, and hand wrote all correspondence which his secretary diligently typed for him.) (Point of reference, I’m a young 58 and bought a “word processor” prior to getting a computer in the mid 90s. I couldn’t figure out where the “page” ended, and got really upset about that.)

    The following poem was written on my own birthday in 2004, and references my boss Jack’s world he “did not imagine and probably (doesn’t) especially like”

    MFN/ppf

    “Wisdom Deterioration”
    Poetry by Michael F. Nyiri
    Saturday, May 1st , 2004 7:18 p.m. pdt

    Moving ever so slowly, he masquerades as always,
    Now the skin hangs, and the massive girth droops,
    The wherewithal and the knowledge become puttering and doggerel
    Once so stalwart and essential, now old and in the way.

    Wisdom retains it’s innocence, even as age mocks it’s veracity
    Time bears witness to the physical and mental breakdown of meaning
    Words which eludicated in years ago,
    Now look fuzzy and blurred beneath the failing eyes,
    And the mind can’t grasp why
    No wonder age is confused

    Technology advances beyond comprehension,
    What was painstakingly memorized as technology
    Scant decades ago can be filed in the recycle bin
    Along with yesterday’s deteriorating wisdom

    Wisdom exists in perpetuity, and tells us of this disaster
    As soon as a lifetime’s thought is learned and catalogued
    It is forgotten.
    The body becomes a mocking personal crypt
    A wise reminder of mortality’s comedy,

    He has almost lived past his abiltiy to matter
    And this is life’s grand shame.
    A lifetime spent teaching what he knew
    And now he can’t remember
    And technology turns communication into a crashed computer

    Moving ever so slowly, he lumbers to his office
    Which he hardly ever leaves anymore,
    Manufacturing important procedures which
    have already been taken care of by technology.
    Nobody visits him at this time when he probably needs it the most.
    Because they have work to do.
    So each day he performs the masquerade of existence,
    Each day he forgets more than most of us remember.
    Each day he comes to work.
    Until the last day finally arrives.

  • LOL  Mike, your CEO has seven years on me.  I remember how delighted I was when I could move up from a typewriter to a computer/word processor. I threw away about a gallon of white-out.

    I guess I’m lucky in that I don’t feel challenged by modern tech.

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