August 10, 2010

  • Project Positive: This Blog's for You.

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    Project Positive: This Blog's for you.

    Dear Xangan,

    You might have been present at the inception of this blogging service, or you might have started blogging here yesterday. You may be incredibly wordworthy, a fantastic writer and master of the English language, or you may be from another country than I, and your language is fleeting, sporadic, and haltingly imprecise. You may be pretty popular here on Xanga, or you might be shy and intimidated by others you perceive as more experienced in the art of social networking.

    You may be male, female, childish, rich in the throes of youthful abandon, or older, more experienced, and sure of yourself. You may be a master of HTML coding, and your blog is fantastically presented, with lots of groovy graphics and wonderful words. Or you may be "computer illiterate" and might not even know how to make a link.

    The world is a big place, teeming with wonder and specialness. Before the internet, the various denizens of the world population pretty much had to keep to themselves and the souls within their close vicinity. Now, almost a couple of decades after the institution of the internet became a part of so many of our lives, we can use this great medium not only to find the answers to almost any question, but to find camaraderie and friendship all over this grand world.

    The sliver of life which presents itself on your blog is unique and also universal. You may write about your daily routine such as it is, interspersed with family tales, photos of your pets, and good tidings for all. Or else you may be a bit snarky, with a strange sense of humor you find stimulated and goaded to perfection in this environment. You may think your boyfriend, husband, wife, special gal, dearly departed family member, goldfish, dog, cat, hampster, or ferret is the center of your personal universe, and this drives your musings , or else you consider yourself a true writer, chronicling the ongoing history of pop culture, or contributing to the arts and letters of humanity.

    You may be incredibly religious, and you wish to preach the word of whichever diety you worship to the masses. Or else you are secular and scientific, regaling your audience with facts and figures inherently important to you.

    You are funny. You are meticulous. You are sad. You are informative. You are a human being who has coupled with the technological advances of internet social networking so much that your blog is a part of you, and your readers can tell this simply by visiting your corner of cyberspace.

    You could be blogging somewhere else, but you chose to become a Xangan, a badge which carries with it the promise of new friends, new experiences, and new connections, and perhaps the re-establishment of old ones. You may blog each and every day, spitting out bits of wisdom in your pulses. Or you may have no pulse, and might decide to only pen a few important words every two or three weeks.

    You might be a staple of the "front pages" of the Xanga world, constantly looking for your internet fame and forturne, or you may keep to yourself, rarely visiting other blogs in the Xangasphere.

    Dear, delightful Xangan. I sometimes think I know you well, and sometimes I don't know you at all. You may be nakedly honest as an "individual", or slyly invisible, preferring to act omnipresent in the community. You are all the parts of an incredible experience in world communication, whether you know it or not.

    Thank you for your posts. They are the glue which binds your blog together, and which in fact binds the whole community. Thank you as well for your comments, those reminders that we are not only together as a people, but we sometimes agree, and sometimes disagree, but that doesn't stop us from continuing the conversation.

    I wrote a poem a long time ago called "Thank you for you." I wish to dedicate this sentiment to you, the eternal Xangan, whether you are here right now reading this, or whether you left in the past and will never glimpse this tribute to your blog's ongoing existence.

    It's not the words or the pictures. It's not the videos or the coding. It's not the toolbars or the modules or the themes which are important in life. In actuality, it's not the blogging service or even the internet which binds us. It is our humanity, our shared existence as humans which matters most in our lives. The internet, and Xanga in particular, from my standpoint, have helped, and are currently helping to foster good will and friendship amongst humans. And this is important.

    Dear Xangan, thank you for being a part of this individual life. This blog's for you!

    Yours most respectfully,

    Michael F. Nyiri, poet, philosopher, fool


    I am reposting "This Blog's for you" for Scott Christian's (RazielV) Project Positive. Visit other "positive" blog entries from the Project Positive blog! And don't forget to recommend Project Positive blog entries from around the Xangasphere. In case my entry might "look familiar" it is because this is actually a "wayback post" from May 7th of last year, and was originally written for the Featured Grownups blogring site. I'm really proud of Scott and I'm glad that Project Positve posts are appearing on Xanga's front pages, hopefully replacing the backbiting and quarrelsome posts which usually litter Top Blogs. Way to go, Scott. It seems that you've planted an "idea" in the collective subconscious of Xanga, and it's growing larger every minute. MFN/ppf 

    EDIT 8/11/10 6:30 a.m. pdt. I've written over 40 letter/comments in the last 24 hours, when I decided to join in the Project Positive campaign. I haven't yet "returned comments" on this entry, which did get up to #7 on Top Blogs, but I did visit and comment each of the posted participants on the PP site (up till about 8pm yesterday) recommending their entries, and introducing myself if I didn't already "know" them. When I first read Scott's proposal for the Project Positive campaign, I commented: I nominate my whole blog. Some of us here in the Xangasphere are always attempting to project a positive attitude. I've blogged about potentially negative subjects like abuse, suicide, depression, and living with a  handicap, but in these posts I have pointed out that although there is much dread and sadness in the world, there is also a bright new day dawning tomorrow with endless possibilities. I visited quite a few blogs projecting positive attitudes even without the benefit of the PP campaign, and I'm glad I had the opportunity to visit them, and saw that some of these entries made it to Top Blogs. I hope the momentum doesn't stop, and that I see more and more enlightening entries featured on Xanga. MFN/ppf

Comments (53)

  • Thank you Michael for such a wonderful post.  You certainly captured the many styles of xangan bloggers and I certainly saw myself represented.  I am glad we have been able to meet up here on xanga to begin a good friendship.  I have been blessed by many other xangans and hope to be a blessing and a friend to others.  To have friends one must BE a friend to others...I have heard that before and I believe it.

    Looking forward to your next entry!
    Mike

  • Well said Mike~ and much needed.

  • Great project positive post! :) Thank you for your words!

  • There is no other place on the internet like Xanga, and I am proud (most of the time) to be a part of it. Great post, Mike.

  • This is a great post. You said it all perfectly :)

  • I feel honoured by your words, Mike. You're one of Xanga's under-rated bloggers/writers, and reading this is a real treat. If anything, this entry embodies everything that Xanga is, was, and forever will be. This was wonderful to read, and it should be shared throughout the community.

  • I absolutely LOVE this post. A gigantic smile was on my face as I read this, and it just got bigger and bigger as I kept reading. You pretty much single-handedly described a gigantic portion of Xanga, if not all of us. And completely in a positive way! No drama, not insults, just lots and lots of love. The way it ought to be. :) I'm totally linking this in a pulse. 

  • Absolutely wonderful!  I love this post!  I believe you have captured the essence of just about every blogger and Xanga!

  • beautifully said (:

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  • Very well written post =)

  • that is sweet Mike and you are special,too

  • WOW!  What a wonderful tribute. I am almost a total shut in...Xanga is often my only contact with the outside world.  I am warmed by your thoughts. ~ mom

  • "It is our humanity, our shared existence as humans which matters most in our lives." - This is the best kernel from this post (and proof that I read it all ). Bon travail!

  • Dear Mike,

    I think your letter is fantastic. I am glad you decided to repost it, because I missed it the first time around.

    Hope all is well.

    - Dave

  • Dear Mike,

    I am subscribed to well over 200 blogs and I am "friends" with 171 different sites at last count. I regret that I do not always have the time to comment thoughtfully on everyone's page. I subscribed to you because I appreciate your wisdom and your intellectual and well-thought out writing. I respect wordsmiths such as yourself because you inspire me to take my craft seriously. I found your blog somehow, probably through the recommendation of one of my friends, and I read several stories about your adventures living with a woman who sounds downright toxic, and I empathized and sympathized with your plight. I do not remember if I left a comment; at times I convince myself that even a couple of lines letting someone know I was here and I read are important, at others I convince myself that unless I have something worthwhile to share, I ought to stay silent and simply be a witness. Either way, know that your words do not go soundlessly into a void, but rather are mulled over by a simple girl in the Northwestern United States, trying to make her way in a vast and rapidly changing world. Your poetry may not be the same style I write in (for more on this, visit opticalnoise.xanga.com), and your philosophy may at times disagree with mine, but as for being a fool--I think that is a universal experience, and I respect the fact that you will openly admit it rather than hide behind a facade of having it all together and being an "intellectual"--as if somehow being intellectually driven protected you from foolishness.

    Thank you for writing this blog. As a dedicated xangan for five years now, albeit in different incarnations and under different usernames, I appreciate much of what you said. I feel the lines that most closely capture my experience here are:

    "You may be incredibly religious, and you wish to preach the word of whichever diety you worship to the masses. Or else you are secular and scientific, regaling your audience with facts and figures inherently important to you."

    On my blog, I make no qualms about being both religious and scientific. I am a secular humanist with a deep and abiding faith in Christianity. I hope you enjoy my ramblings.

    Sincerely,

    Khai

  • Great post, as usual, Mike! I am a woman of few words in comments, but my appreciation for your writing knows no bounds.

  • Nicely done. It almost makes me want to take my site off "friends lock" and make some new friends again on Xanga... but yet I hesitate. Making new friends on Xanga does come with its own risks... like inviting trolls. 

  • Well written, Mike, and quite timeless.  btw -- I don't consider myself particularly "computer illiterate," but please could you message me a step-by-step guide to creating a link - lol !

  • All the reasons why I am sticking with Xanga, although I have stated on my blog that Facebook has some usefulness. I find it difficult to blog often. I try to make it twice a week at least, but sometimes life intrudes & then I don't have time to blog about what's going on. Nevertheless, I do appreciate friendships I've made here.

    Grand post! Thank you.

    ~~Blessings 'n Cheers

  • Glad to see more awesome material! Sorry I haven't been around here in so long

  • (pats heart and points to you) It's a gateway to share. Something for everyone.

  • Such beautiful words... thank you for making me smile!

  • What a wonderful way to celebrate the different personalities here.  Great post!

  • Looks like you were ahead of the positive project by over a year, wtg Mike.

  • Thank you too. =D

  • Perfectly stated, then, but most especially, now!

  • So glad for you here too!

  • Great post! It truly shows the best of this diverse place.

  • This really sums us up!  Nice entry; I have seen a lot of recommendations going around for Project Positive, and I think that's great!

  • :) beautifully written. Makes me love being a Xangan

  • This was pretty damn amazing. 

  • Thanks Mike for your very interesting reply; it encourages me to expound on my rather bland "good post" - or worse yet, "thanks for your comments" that I leave.  I will try to improve.

    That printing press at the Treasury must be impressive as the money they churn out looks so cool now, they have color and particular markings as to ruin a counterfeiters day.  My point is I wonder where the money will come from to support the many programs and I have a good idea where that will come from as you touched on it, probably will come from the taxes we pay!
    Mike

  • Such an inspiring letter from someone who deserves a wider audience. This blog deserves to be featured!

  • Thats a great post Mike thumbs up.

  • I'm with you about xanga. Personally, I think the most important part of a blog is its written content and I like the idea that you can say what you have to say without all the embellishments if you choose. I also like the way comments are presented and answered. Compare Xanga with Yahoo if you want to go from the sublime to the depths.

    Keep up he good work

  • @RazielV - Dear Scott, I do feel "underrated" or at least "underread" a lot of the time. F'rinstance, after a long time without posting any real writing, I posted Chapter 14 of my "My Sexual History" series a few weeks ago and got a whopping FIVE comments. A new low for me, let me tell ya.

    @Rhia_Pyrithea - Dear Ruchi, A few comments like the one to which I'm replying really make my day. Thank you. Feel free to link. I put all my writing on the internet for free, and encourage anyone to quote me, as long as they acknowledge me. (linking of course is acknowledgement.)

    @quodmenutriut - Dear Kahi, Some day I have to pare down my list of over 425 "friends". I know there are folks out there who read my blog and never comment. I really enjoyed reading your letter, which fills me with joy. As an old bald guy who's lost a lot of his 'real life' friends, who keep dropping like flies. (My best friend from HS died just two weeks ago.) I do treasure the connections I make on Xanga. However, since I usually only can make enough time to visit and comment the folks who visit me. (I don't befriend anyone and rarely subscribe anymore) if someone doesn't at least make their presence known, I will "forget" them. Nice to have made your acquaintence.

    @ThoughtsByShirlann - Dear Shirlanne, My blog is "open" but I rarely get trolls or negative comments. I've been incredibly lucky that way, and I've "met" a lot of Xangans in cyberspace.

    @slmret - Dear Janet. I would hope that everything I post on Xanga is "timeless". I consider myself a writer instead of a "blogger". Thank you for the compliment.

    @llibra - Dear Linda, Like I said in my update from this morning, when Scott posted his intention to start this campaign, I commented: I  nominate my whole blog.

    @XndraXstz - Dear Sandra, Nice to see a comment from you. Thanks for the compliment.  This entry got to at least #7 on Top Blogs yesterday.

  • @baldmike2004 - I've been on Xanga since 2006; and I was burned pretty badly once, so I'm a bit hesitant to put my NEW site (had to shut down my old one when my now-ex-husband hacked it!) out there for everyone to see. But, I'm trying it this week and seeing what kind of traffic and/or comments I get. Thus far, just a bunch of views on my "Project Positive" post and a couple of comments. I used to have a thing against lurkers; but now I'm getting over it. If they want to comment, they will.

    P.S. I have a tight circle of friends on Xanga from my old account (Shirlann) days. And, I've been lucky enough to meet a few of my favorite Xangans in person! Next week I'm having dinner with vanedave, even! 

  • @baldmike2004 - Dear Mike,

    This is me officially making my presence known. :)

    Khai.

  • This is a wonderfully upbeat post. I have blogs everywhere, but I have to say Xanga is the friendliest place in the blogosphere.

    Thank you for your comment, today, even though I've been terribly neglectful of Xanga lately.
    I haven't done a whole lot of photo manipulation, but I do enjoy making graphics. I've learned a whole lot more in this class and will probably do more with photos, now.
    As for the garage... Most of the stuff in there does get used, though usually infrequently. But yeah, I'm getting so that if I don't use it at all, I'll get rid of it... eventually.

  • @baldmike2004 - You're definitely under-rated, Mike. I've said that a million times. 

  • You have credit for being such a beautiful writer (and making me feel good about myself). Kudos to you! 

  • It seems like you have not missed out on mentioning ANYONE in the Xanga universe. An exceedingly heartwarming blog. Thank you!

  • Good job being positive. 

  • Eloquently expressed, Mike.  Thanks for sharing this significant perspective!

  • I enjoyed this. Thanks for always being a positive force around xanga.

  • You,..yourself,..are a special xangan,..indeed,..Sir Mike!!

  • If you'd like to visit us please call and we will make sure someone is in the office to meet you.

  • I can assure you that should the occasion arise I would be more than willing to use your services again.

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