January 11, 2010

  • Wayback Post: Taking Time vs. Making Time

    Taking Time versus Making Time

    (A WayBack Post from 11/15/05)

    An essay by Michael F. Nyiri 11/15/05, Reposted on 4/03/08

    “I just don’t have the time.”

    How many “times” do we hear this “excuse”? I hear it all the “time”. At work. On the internet.Through the course of my life, almost every other person “doesn’t have time”. They are overtaxed, overworked, and overwhelmed. As the “age of information” piles more and more “things to do” onto our daily plate; news stories to read, blogs to peruse, entertainment not to be missed (and now even downloadable onto your ipod or cellphone!), we have to balance this with friends and family time, worktime, and some of us even need to reserve a few hours for sleep every night. Is is any wonder that people feel so pressed for “time” that they just don’t have any more “time” to spend?

    Frankly, I hate the phrase, and I attempt not to use it. Time is the first religion. You might not know this, but before Christianity or Islam, before “time” as we know it, ancient man noticed the cyclical nature of sun and moon paths, and how when crops were planted and harvested at certain “times” of the year, they were able to prosper as a race of humans. Eventually, these cycles became “revered” and the sun and the moon attained celestial godlike powers for the humans who “worshipped” them. Even today, we “worship” the concept of time, even as we curse it.

    I would like to tell you that I have completely freed myself of the bonds of time, but when I look in the mirror of course I know this isn’t true. Time may only exist in the mind of man. Minutes, hours, and days are just “conventions” man has invented in order to help him “count” these minutes hours and days. Time itself is “timeless”. In the Universal, all time is relative. (Einstien attempted to “prove” this with his “theory of relativity.”) In the Universal, the past and the present coexist with the future at the same “time”. A little too difficult a concept to grasp, I know, especially when we know that we only live a certain amount of “time” and then we perish.

    Indigenous peoples of the Earth, like the Lakota tribe of “Indians” in America, knew that the “rocks and the mountains” “lived” a lot longer than man. Man’s “cycle” of life was much shorter. Hence, the “rocks and mountains” (which exist in geological time) were imbued with great spiritual powers. The “nature” of geology and the cosmos demanded respect, and worship. Rocks and mountains didn’t “seem” to “age”.

    Of course any trip to the Grand Canyon proves this “belief” wrong, in a way, but only from the Lakota’s perception. Through a long course of “geologic” time, the Colorado River cut through the canyon, creating the magnificence we see when visiting today. Since it takes many “generations” for man to realize that there are changes in geologic time, early man didn’t know that the earth was “taking it’s time” as well.

    I know I only have a set period of “time” to do anything. That “time” can expire, like I can, “any time.” Each moment is one in which I savor my existence, and I “attempt” or “try” to perform tasks, make plans, and interact with humanity with as much brio as possible. I don’t like to tell anyone I “don’t have the time”. I tell them I will attempt to “make time.”

    Time management is a skill I have studied, and I put it to work in my everyday life. I have found that I can deal with as many customers as call, I can handle as many projects as scheduled, and I can answer as many questions as asked, and I seem to be able to do this no matter what the quantity of customers, projects or questions exist.  In fact, in my position at work, if it is a “slow day” and they don’t exist, I get bored very quickly, and I will find other tasks to perform, and sometimes find that I can “run out of time” because I always want to do more.

    This isn’t to say that I don’t get burned out. Usually, the Holiday Season is a slow “time” for our company, and there is more than enough “time” to create and ship the control panels ordered. One season, however, there was a large backlog, partially due to the fact that everyone seems to order generators and computer backup systems in “times” of disasters. And there were many hurricanes that season in the Gulf and in Florida, where we have lots of customers. (The Y2K scare in 1999 generated more sales for our company than at any other “time” in my 16 year employment, since everyone thought they would need generators “when the lights went out” which of course didn’t happen.) I am apt to field two dozen phone calls from customers. Vendors, who have been operating on a “stock as ordered” business model since the economy nosedived in 2001, are not ready to handle the business. Each project we build needs a lot of “engineering” which I do on my trusty computer. As more “labor saving devices” are built, more “labor” seems to be needed. I have three columns on the white board in my office. 1. “Orders”, which need to be entered, and processed, which means I need to make sure all the components are correct, so something doesn’t get purchased that isn’t needed, or worse, something doesn’t get purchased that is needed. 2. Master Documents, which need to be prepared, so the technicians can build the product, and 3. Quotes, which need to be researched, quoted, and sent to customers, usually on a deadline, so that we can secure more business. Items are continually being added to each column as quick as older items are being crossed off. Rarely can I proclaim I have “completed’ any list on any column, especially when it’s “busy”. I also test every panel we build, so sometimes it would seem as if I don’t “have enough time” to complete everything. The “trick” to time management, is to realize that the cycles will continue, and to keep the “to do list” at a manageable length. I will “ask for help” if I feel I cannot “handle the load”.

    Each email, fax, or phone call is logged. I peruse my “inbasket” (both the physical and the digital) many times a day. If I don’t “lay eyes” on something, then I don’t know it exists. But if I “look” at something two or three times without action, I know I’m not giving that item it’s allotted “time”. After looking at a dozen tasks or so that need to be performed, I usually perform the easiest first. I always attempt to handle the “older” work first, but I am learning to appreciate that I am not Superman, and cannot do the impossible. That is another clue to excellent time management.

    “I’ll try to make time.” is the “excuse” you will hear the most from me. Never “I don’t have time.” I have all the “time” that anyone else does. I might not have the use of geologic time at my disposal, since I will only live an ordinate amount of years, but with the “time” I have, I will try to use it wisely. I follow what I call the “squeaky wheel engineering model.” The one who lets me know something is important. (Usually only because his customer is bugging him for delivery or a project) is the one who is usually at the top of my to do list. (Unless he’s just ordered something, in which case he can wait. We adjust our lead times for delivery during the quoting process based on work backlog.) I don’t “lie” to anyone, and I get lots of customers, so this means I’m doing something “right” and not “wrong” no matter how many customers with which I am dealing. If someone tells me his project is “not important at this time”, he tells me the “wrong thing” and his project goes to the “bottom of the pile.”

    Time management is almost zenlike in nature, based as much on intuition and chance as on actual learned skills. I will always “make time”, but I will never claim I don’t have any. It takes moments to process information. In the information age, we have lots of computer generated “shortcuts”. When I look around the desks of the offices around me, no matter to whom they belong, chances are they are filled with folders, papers, manuals, and the detritus of the business at hand. My desktop is clear however. I have neat little “piles” of “things to do”. My computer “desktop” is relatively clear as well. I try not to keep anything in “tickler” files. Each item needs attention of a certain sort, and each item is dealt with. I take great pride in “concentrating” on those items with which I feel I will never be able to deal, and because of this concentration, I am usually able to satisfy most every one that wants or needs something.

    Time is really nonexistent, and we should always live in the moment, as if it were our last, because we never know how much “time” we have left. But that “clock” on my office wall keeps ticking. It keeps telling me that I have unfinished work to do. And what am I doing right now? I am preparing this blog entry about time management skills. I have the “time” to do this, because I know pretty much what to expect today, and my “day” is already planned, as it was when I left work yesterday afternoon. If I find myself getting overwhelmed, I take a break, and figure out what is the best way to tackle what needs to be done. Processing information, developing a game plan, and acting upon it, are the steps to be taken. I find I can usually “make time” for anything.

    So please don’t ever tell me you don’t have time.


    I’ve included the clock from the main page of my website, AllThingsMike.  The little clock icon should be on the right in the header to this article, and should be keeping “your” time no matter where in the world you are located. The gif of me “keeping time” in the upper left was created with the big sunglasses I got when I had my cataract surgery. Made me feel like Ray Charles. MFN/ppf

Comments (23)

  • Ah, the mystery of time! I’ve mulled over much of this myself. Did you know that some cultures today truly have no sense of time and not even the language for it–as in words for “time,” “hour,” “day,” “late,” etc? They just live completely in the “moment”–very fascinating people to learn about! A phrase/excuse I can’t stand, much-related, is “I’ve been busy” or the many variations of that… much along the lines you were speaking. Very thought-out, detailed post & great job on it! :goodjob:

  • time’s of the essence.

  • You know~ I have friends (non-virtual) that don’t keep in contact~ using the~ they don’t have time excuse.  I have nine children, nine horses, five dogs, Crohns disease dr appointments, cook for the homeless~ and still have time to invest into my friends.  I figure we make time for that which we value. 

    PS~ I made the time to visit and read your post~ this means more to me than my beckoning electric blanket. :sunny:

  • I have time.  I do.  I can’t imagine why I would use that excuse.

    Your blog was fascinating as always.  May you always have time and lots of it.

    Kat

  • Time management is an art.

  • We all would like to be the masters of time, but instead we are mere slaves to it. Excellent essay worth spending our time poring over.

  • You are right,..you know,..there is no such thing as time.  It is only an illusion.  There is only continuous change!!:eek:

  • I agree entirely with the sentiments of @WildWomanOfTheWest - ”I figure we make time for that which we value”. 

    The excuse “I don’t have the time for x/y/z” is often used in lieu of what we really mean “I don’t want to do/deal with x/y/z. In fact time hands us many excuses which most of us use pretty frequently. Because who can argue with “time”? And so yes, we “”worship” the concept of time, even as we curse it”, for even outside the arena of “time” the excusing opportunities it presents a fallible human are countless.

    If time were not on hand to provide us with these excuses, perhaps we might be more honest with each other and communicate more openly. This in itself I imagine would “save time” in the long run.  

    Such an interesting and stimulating post Michael. I will endeavour to “make time” or at the very least manage the time I do have more effectively. Even if that is by exchanging the “I don’t have time” to the more honest “actually I don’t want to do that….let’s think of a different way to do it”

    :goodjob:

  • @webofsimplicity - Dear Simplicity, I had an epiphany at the age of 12 where I suddenly understood that I should savor my childhood, and live each moment as if it were something special. I’m still a child, even at the age of 56, and am still living in the moment.

    @WildWomanOfTheWest - Dear Tamy, I smiled at “I made the time to …read your post.” I wrote this about a year and a half after I joined Xanga, and besides talking about the workplace, where I’ve always hated the phrase, I am sort of making a veiled reference to “critics” who always told me they didn’t have “time” to read my long posts!

    @RuftyRoo - Dear Mel. You hit the nail right on it’s proverbial head. When someone uses this excuse, they usually really mean they just don’t want to do whatever is asked. Acting like one has the time to do anything (I call it the “superman complex”) like I do can cause problems though, as I found out. I used to volunteer to do all kinds of extra stuff at work, and when I WOULD get busy, people STILL expected me to have time for their petty projects RIGHT NOW.

  • Hello, Mike.

    Good post. I stop by on occasion but I rarely comment. Sorry if that bothers you because I know you like comments and are good at commenting back. I hope this finds you well.

    I have never been good at time management. In fact, it’s cited as one of my weak points almost always at the top of any list of problem areas identified by my colleagues. I find that being in the here and now a bit difficult because ordinary existence is so mundane to me.

  • This is full of wisdom, Michael. Thanks so much for sharing it! My mother once commented that she could spend a day in prayer, not noticing that time was passing. She’d combine her work with her prayers in such a way that sweeping a floor became an offering, or cooking a meal became a petition for someone else. She often said that the days passed very quickly when she did that. I suspect elevating the mind and offering one’s work for a purpose achieves that.

  • If a person can’t make a profound effort in writing a blog, why read it? similar to a comment. Oh I make sacrifices, usually in some lost causes. But instead if mulling over why some failed, we need to move on to other things that are more rewarding.

    I remember when I used to help in a grocery store parkinglot. It can be rewarding to help people just because they need help. We need to balance the need to help those that pay us and the inner need to help others.

    I suppose if you gave a general techie blog on how to set up a computer internet system a lot of folks here on xanga would love to read it…Just saying…

  • This post hits on a topic so relevant for me now. I was just sitting here wondering where the time has gone this year. I like the list idea, but I find myself spending more time working on lists and planning than it would have taken to just do the tasks in question. Thanks for bringing this up at a time when I needed a reminder.

  • @Czolya - Dear Colin, Happy belated 5th Xangaversary. It doesn’t “bother” me that some of my readers read and don’t comment. (Some bloggers feel as it they are being “stalked” when this happens. Not me. )What may bother me is that since I mainly read blogs from comments, I may “forget” to catch up. It’s nice to “see” you in any case.

    @La_Chose_En_Soi - Dear Jess, Your mother sounds more interesting the more I read about her. She truly possesses wisdom.

    @PPhilip - Dear Philip, Interesting comment. Most of my readers are far from ‘techies’. I began a series called “Geekspeaking” to test those waters, and nobody knew what I was writing about. Sigh. I agree that it is quite rewarding to help people, until such time as they forget to help themselves, that is.

    @Ro_ad808 - Dear Michael, You have to be able to alot enough time to make and maintain the lists too. I’m so anal, I’ll make a to-do list even if it has one or two items on it. I wrote this a few years ago. My white board only has one item on it right now, which is pretty scary! (It is crossed off!)

  • RYC You are one wise person on relationships and personalities. You are younger, but years older than my 80 years!! I think I am basically shy when it is one on one. Depending on the computer, I have a “safe place”. Face to face is probably scary because there is no safety net. Some people are very uncomfortable around hearing-impaired people. I think it caused by an ignorance of the affliction coupled with not knowing how to deal with it.

    Thank you, Mike, for your wise advice, which I am going to take!!!! 

  • Great post Michael and we need to make time to do those things which bring us peace and enhance our lives.

  • What great “timing” on your part for putting this up today. I had to sit my ass down and “make time” for a review I needed to write last week, but kept putting off. I felt amazing when I finished it in one sitting. All because I just shut everything out, and put in the “time”.

  • I use to draw a lot long ago and hours would pass with out me realizing it. That was a wonderful feeling. This post is very wise.

  • Ah, when properly manage, the result is something that we can be satisfied about. That’s time. Thanks for this truly insightful post. :)

  • “Don’t count every hour in the day, make every hour in the day count.”
    Source unknown

    P.S. Thank you for the encouragement!

  • That’s well thought essay on time management.

  • Since I have reached eighty, I acknowledge each day as one more day closer to the end. I try to make the most of “Time”. It is such a gift and one we so often ignore, especially in our youth. Thanks for this blog, Mike.

  • I’m a single young man, I have all the time in the world, babay!

    @Sojourner_here - 

    You still got plenty of time, babay!

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