April 1, 2009
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Xanga Drama: Recommend This Post!
Introduction to Drama (A Xanga pastime) and other things this April Fool's Day
I've been "on the internet" for a little over ten years now. I'll be turning 56 years old on May 1st, so I'm finally convinced I'm an "old man", even if I don't feel too much like it until I look in the mirror or attempt to stand up and walk around. As I've written so many times, I made a concerted effort to learn HTML, establish a "web presence", and start creating web pages back in 1999 because I found that 12 year olds (who are now 22 year olds) had websites, and I didn't want to live in a world where I didn't speak the dominant language, that of "cyberspeak".
In those ten years, I've attempted quite a few times to "make a name for myself" online. I've created graphics, videos, written reams of words (well, "reams" is the wrong word for the internet, but you understand the metaphor) and self promoted myself to infinity. I use my real name, in hopes that those who wish to "find me" can easily do so. My "online life" is inextricably coupled with my "real" life. Unlike those 22 year olds, with whom the internet, cell phones, and the dozens of modern conveniences which didn't exist back when I was 22, are thought of as needful things, I can "shut down" the internet at any time and not really miss not having it around. I might be a relic, but I'm a wired relic, who, through the wisdom of age and experience, knows that the cyberworld is not only a great boon to communication, and a blessing to agoraphopes, but a vast "place" where differing opinions, snarky commentary, ill advised put downs, and quarrelsome ideas all live side by side. Again, as I've written before, "truth and bullsh*t coexist side by side on the internet, sometimes on the same website."
One can find pretty much whatever he wants on the internet, and social networking sites like Xanga have made it easy for pretty much anyone, including the populace at large, and wired old geeks like me, along with people who don't really "know" computers, to create blogsites, show the world their opinions and observations, and participate in this vast cyberworld of opportunity and disappointment.
Sometimes, in an attempt to promote my "art and literature" online, I really spend a lot of time with social networking. Over the past few months, I've been "busy" what with the move, and the always hectic work schedule, so I haven't really followed a lot of the bloggers in the Xangasphere. Because I've been on this service for almost half a decade, and have lots of "friends" and subscribers, the few entries I've written or posted (about one or two a week) do get comments, and I can still feel part of the community as I respond to those comments, and visit a few "regulars". Now that I'm settled in the "real world", I've begun to promote and to socialize again, and therein lies the rub.
I want to talk a bit about some of what I've experienced since I've been "back" on a full time basis.
When I joined Xanga, in 2004 (hence baldmike_2004, my Xanga username) Xanga had been around for four years. From doing online research, I believe I can say with some veracity that Xanga was the first "blogging community" in cyberspace, which allowed bloggers to communicate with each other using comments. I already had a few blogs on Blogspot when I came "over here", and I immediately forsook writing them to concentrate full time on my Xanga, BECAUSE of the comments. Most of the folks I came in contact with, for the most part, are still actively blogging and are still subscribers or readers to this blog, and vice versa. I think for the most part, that's how Xanga blogging works. A person starts a blog, and if they wish to be social, they visit others whose blogs they think are interesting, and develop a dialogue. This dialogue can last for years. I "met" my last girlfriend on Xanga, and we're still friends. Most of us keep this small coterie of "friends" for our "Xangalife". When someone in a group of friends leaves the service without notifying anyone, the others in the group start to worry, and one can view dozens of "hope you're allright' messages and comments on the abandoned blog. I really like this sense of community among friends. A lot of Xangans have confessed, in their blogs, that they offer up more of themselves on Xanga than they do "in real life". Recently, when Xanga added the "publish this entry to your Facebook profile" feature (I already had the RSS feed sending blog entries to my Facebook account) I could sense some grousing about the feature, because a LOT of Xangans use their blog to "let it all hang out" and have "real" friends on Facebook who they don't want reading their blogs.
I find this fascinating. So there ARE boundries, even among those 22 year olds for whom the real and cyberworld are more enmeshed than for me.
The Xangaworld has a meeting place on their "front page". A lot of you don't even visit the front page, and are content, like I am most of the time, to visit our own friends, let it all hang out, and reciprocate without ever having to read or care about what might seem "interesting" or "vital" to the blogging world at large, or at least it's Xanga constituency.
Four years ago, the most "famous" Xangan I could name would probably be the regal Lord Pineapple, the nom de internet of "real life" poet and writer Terry Cuthbert, based in London, England. Terry passed away a few years ago. In 2004, he wrote multiple blogs, using multiple personalities, and was well known amongst a large group of Xangans. Since I wanted to become a "popular" blogger here, I befriended Terry, and got to know some of the people he knew pretty quick. He told me in comments that I would definitely become pretty popular, because my blog was one of the better written, and more interesting around at the time.
The next most famous Xangan to emerge was, and is, to this day, Dan the Theologian. I don't even really need to tag him or link him. Everyone on Xanga, even the newbies, have heard about Dan. His early "blogging style" of asking questions amongst his readers, which fueled all the wriing challenge blogs, and the "Featured Question" of the day, hit a nerve among bloggers on this service, and with each entry, Dan seemed to become more and more the "king of Xanga". He also, from the very beginning, would offer advice to bloggers like me who wanted to become more "famous" and get more readers and comments.
Another "famous" Xangan is Daniel Vacerrelli, or Drakonskyr. I'd call him a "nihilisitc blogger" who is popular in spite of the fact he regularly berates his readership. He's a true individual, and doesn't appeal to everyone. I admit it took me a while to "get" Daniel's blog, as it took me a while to "get" Terry's many personas. But this is the internet, and we can "be" whomever we want to be. That's a blessing and a curse.
In early 2008, I began to notice a group of Xangans, some pretty new to the service, who began to rack up large readerships. Utilizing the featured status generated by "stars" then prevalent on the front pages, this group of "Xangalebrites" fed off of each other, and befriended Dan the Theologian, who mentioned their entries on his posts. Popularity ensued for a select group, and now one can troll the front pages of Xanga (Now there is "Most Rec'd", "Top Blogs", and "Featured", and again, I'm not going to supply links, since they're all listed on www.xanga.com anyway.) and see the same profile names appearing again and again. A lot of these bloggers probably get their news from Jon Stewart at the Daily Show (or on tmz.com) and could be classified as humorous/satirical writers. A lot of the time they write about Xanga. (blogging about blogging is known as "metablogging") They link to each other, and they've developed vast followings instead of small friendships.
A lot of what gets "featured" doesn't interest me or a lot of my readers. What does interest me, as a student of sociology, is the general tone of "drama" that some confrontations, observations, and discussions seem to generate, coupled with the mention of such drama on these "popular blogs", with their large readerships, who in turn keep the "drama" going.
For instance, a while ago, a blog appeared seemingly written by an internet celebrity blogger called Perez Hilton. (No, not PARIS Hilton, this is a guy, and he writes celebrity gossip on perezhilton.com.) His blog was introduced, spread around the xangasphere, and the big question of course was whether or not the Xanga was written by the "real' Hilton or one of the Xangalebrities as a joke. For some, this generated "drama". See, it's quite easy for somebody to create multiple blogsites, then recommend the blog entry they want to be on the front page of Xanga. If they get the eye of Dan the Theologian, or any of the Xangalebrities du jour, and get linked or mentioned on those blogs, then a firestrorm of popularity ensues, or lambasting, name calling, etc.
It reminded me of all the Miley Cyrus sites that started popping up on Xanga a few years ago when the young pop diva first became a household word. I don't watch the Disney channel, and I didn't even know who she was, when I began seeing dozens of people claim to be Miley Cyrus.
I don't think there was too much "drama" surrounding this, because there wasn't a network of "Xangalebrities" pointing fingers and promoting "drama".
Well, the circle has revolved completely around, as it is wont to do. This is April Fool's Day, and I decided to take a gander at the front page again this morning to check out if there were any Xanga Fool's Jokes being perpetrated on Top Blogs. There, at Number 7, was Miley Cyrus' first entry. In it, she mentions the "if Perez can do it", so can she.
To add insult to injury, her entry is linked by none other than Dan the Theologian himself.
I have nothing against anyone who wants to play around with the system, to create multiple blogs so that they can recommend their posts to the front pages. Go have fun. It's April Fool's Day, so act as foolish as you want.
Those of us with real content and substantial histories here on Xanga will still be doing what we do when all the fake sites and drama disappear. We'll be content with 15 comments an entry because those comments will be real and truly heartfelt. Who will be the "last blog standing" as it were? I doubt if it will belong to Perez on X or Miley on X.
It might just belong to Baldmike_2004 whose been on "X" for a while now. No drama, no lies, no foolishness.
Again, I want to point out that I'm using the Miley site entry for a point. I don't know who set up the new Miley site. (it's got a generic Xanga 'theme' whereas the real Miley would have a brand labelled background, etc.) The 4/1 entry on Dan's site is an April Fool's joke. But seeing what the Perez site generated in terms of vitriol, I can assume that there will be "drama" generated over the Miley site. But this is just speculation on my part. MFN/ppf
Comments (60)
Mike my birthday is May3 and I'll be 58yr so I guess I'm your older sister.
@jillcarmel - Dear Jill, I believe I even mentioned you as a "sister" in one of my blogposts a while back. Since I don't communicate with my "real" sister, I'll acknowledge you as my "cybersister". You don't look a day over 42!
It's interesting to see all the different things that fly around Xanga.
I really enjoyed reading this post. Honesty is very important to me. I don't like april fools day. People use it as an excuse to lie and then wonder why I have problems believing what they say on May 2 or Jun 30 or any other day of the week. If you are willing to lie to me on April 1st, why should I believe you are being honest any other day?
:fun: :wave: :coolman: :sunny: :giggle: :nono: :goodjob: you would be my grampa because im almost 27 y /o
@Kristenmomof3 -
Lies & jokes (real jokes, not mean-spirited pranks that put down and embarrass people) are two very different things.
"We'll be content with 15 comments an entry"
amen =) my expecations are pretty low. i don't expect a lot of traffic and don't want more than 60 some friends. i'd much rather receive one or two comments from friends than a thousand flattering comments from people who may like me for superficial reasons.
I can't get into the Xanga metadrama right now, but it's good to know you're around and in the best of spirits
I never noticed any drama, ignorance is bliss!
I have been contemplative about Xanga lately too.
I kinda miss the friendship circles and wonder when and how it evolved.
I really came out here to make friends.
And I think the transient make that harder...so I keep my subs and friends to a managable and familiar level.
I do love Drangonstyr and Thologians too ....
Keep bloging, it will all come around again too...
and FYI...I am one of those Facebookers who likes a bit of separation from this world and that.
xox, QE
i'd be ecstatic with 15 comments a day
or entry... either one! i don't go to much of the front page stuff either. and even though iread dans site i don't comment.
I agree with you that when all the drama dies down, those of us who have been here for a long time will still be here (I have been here since 2003).
just doing my part to get you to 15 comments
Wow, cool stuff.
Xanga drama is laughable.
I must admit that after my recent experience with tons of feedback on an entry, I feel a bit of pressure to impress the masses. However, I can't forget that I started this site for ME.
I kinda just want to smack some people and say, "IT'S ONLY THE INTERNET."
Interesting take on things.
Yeah, I just kinda let it go, too. As I mentioned on one site: "Childish people usually have the same attention spans as children. This too, shall pass."
wb now that you've unpacked =)
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I really enjoyed this post. It reminded me of the time that todaysrandomluckywinner was on Xanga back in the old days. Alas, drama will always arise with so many different opinions. It's just best to mind our own business I guess.
There will be drama as long as there are bloggers,but I strive to be drama free too!
interesting indeed
I like this!
Let's just say, I'm enjoying my relaxing day at the beach.
I've been on a search for genuine Xanga bloggers...the type that don't care about the hype and just enjoy writing for themselves and the small community of a "Xanga family" they have. I think I've found another one. I look forward to your future posts.
Very interesting. I was on Xanga also, long ago - what year, I don't really remember. My friends and I used this as a place to keep journals and keep in touch with each other. Back then I didn't really get involved with people other the those I knew in the real world. Now I'm finding what a great place it can be to learn about new things, hear interesting stories, gain new perspective...that sort of thing. I'd rather not worry about all the drama and keep to myself, I don't understand what all the hype is about... I get on average 4 or 5 comments on a blog, and I don't care. If those 5 people found me interesting, that 5 more people who I have connected with that I wouldn't have without Xanga.
You have just said everything that i've been thinking for the past few weeks. Thank you.
So let me ask you this. Is it possible to walk the line. To be one who ocassionally participates in the drama (cause let's face it, people are so easy to mess with here), but also to be one who writes things of substance. I blog almost everyday here. I hate when people try to put me in a box just because I make top blogs. I am not saying you are necessarily, I'm just saying I don't like it.
I can only dream of 12-15 comments an update...those golden days ended when I graduated college
Mike, you are always an interesting read.
I love this post for a number of reasons, not the least of which is that you made sure to explain things (like who Perez Hilton is) to your readers who may not know. That, and you are just a great writer! Thanks for sharing!
I have wondered how satisfying it can be to have hundred of comments but no real connections. Oh, I suppose they do have a favored few with whom they really connect, even so. It always makes me laugh when I see a certain name pop up on a featured post every time, apparently in an affort to generate traffic to his own site.
I have mostly stopped reading the featured posts these days, though. I enjoy living in my own "neighborhood".
Glad to have you as a neighbor! : )
Hi Mike! Pleased to meet you.
I've seen your comments on a few blogs that I visit, and have appreciated them for their wit and insight. Right now, however I am consumed with "smiley envy", and must away to write a nasty blog and stir up some drama ... Heh.:laugh: (I particularly want that "eye-rolling smiley" - Boy, have I needed that one a few times ... )
Hope to come back and visit often.
Very interesting!! I enjoyed the post. Thanks for sharing :coolman:
Mornin Glorie....but....if Dan hadn't recommended I would not have come over and read you today....on the other hand if Dan hadn't recommended I would not be a friend of Miley Cyrus today either...:mad: ( I know it wasn't really her - but it was april fools day what can I say) I like xanga - I do see a bunch of friends going over to face book and I have a facebook place too - but I'm familar with xanga - I'm not one for change.....great post....I'm glad dan recommended :wave:
this is good coming from an older, wiser person =]
Great entry; glad to meet ya!
I enjoyed hearing the histories about xanga, being a relative newbie (of only a year or so) myself. Thanks for the enlightenment!
I appreciate the lack of drama.
@YouTOme - Dear YouToMe, I love to get comments, and I'm enjoying the fact I got quite a few from this entry. However, I'd rather get one really meaningful comment than 100 innocuous comments, of God forbid, confrontational comments. And I've been blessed with readers who for the most part are encouraging and nice. In order to visit and comment you, I see I'll have to "friend" you, so I will be doing so shortly.
@NightlyDreams - Dear Leigh Ann, My average is 15 comments. (It used to be higher, but I slowed down a bit) Some really good bloggers get even less. The "Miley" entry got hundreds!
@llibra - Dear Linda, Thank you sweetheart. I haven't been by to visit lately. I'll have to remedy this forthwith.
@s_a_r_a_h_1 - Dear Sarah, Thanks for visiting. In my experience, a "featured" entry gets one lots of exposure, but if that exposure isn't maintained, every thing gets back to "normal" pretty quickly. People on the internet have short attention spans.
@IMChurchmouse - Dear Dodi. "Childish people usually have the same attention spans as children." Neat quote, and so true.
@Melosa - Dear Melosa, You're welcome
@vanedave - Dear David, I try to make a point not to "box" anyone. I'm discussing a trend, not dissing anyone in particular. I'm a great fan of homilies, and "if the shoe fits" comes to mind. I have visited your blog, and if memory serves, the entry I read pretty much was telling bloggers to stop acting like children. I don't think I made the time to comment. I'll make sure I drop by again and check you out.
@CdllcEnthus - Dear Gabriel, I'm always fascinated that you don't get more comments, esp. since you wish so many people a Happy Birthday and are such an overall nice guy!
@Krissy_Cole - Dear Krissy, Not only in the blogosphere, but in the L.A. Times and other newspapers, there is a trend to assume everyone knows all references and allusions. I studied journalism in school, and articles are supposed to inform. A lot of news writers and bloggers tout their "cleverness". I'm especially peeved when the writer makes a cultural reference that's incorrect. So thanks for noticing that I don't "assume" my readers know my references.
@TheTheologiansCafe - Dear Dan, I didn't until now realize you recommended this post. Thanks so much. Getting a recommend from you is akin to receiving the medal of honor!
@baldmike2004 - I didn't take offense to this. I was more interested in posing the question to you.
well put! blog away brother.
i would not want my real facebook friends reading my xanga blogs. the xanga world is my own private place.
"Those of us with real content and substantial histories here on Xanga will still be doing what we do when all the fake sites and drama disappear."
YOU SAID IT!!! xanga has changed so much in the last 5 years...
I'm really glad to see this being addressed!
I'm perfectly content in my own little world of 2-3 comments per post.
Xanga will be flourish again if we all just ignore the drama.
You are a REAL and TRUE Xangan who deserves a medal for this entry. Certain Top Blogs hoggers who made a fool of us Xangans with their stupid Perez-Miley drama deserve a FAKE badge next to their usernames for life.
Pretty ironic that you end up getting rec'd by Dan.
Good post, though, and I agree, or rather, I don't agree, but I like the perspective you offered and I'm interested in looking at it further. I'd never examined Xangan social structures before.
AS someone who only started on Xanga last week I am new to all the drama and chaos. I enjoyed your blog today because it reminded of why I started my blog in the first place. There is a reason you were the first person I linked to and friended - you seem honest and genuine and I didn't start my blog to become popular I started it to have a safe place to express myself and I think those of us who started for the same reason tend to melt away from the drama.
I have also been around for quite some time. 2003, to be precise, so I have watched the rise and fall of "xangalebrities" with interest as well. I remember Terry. Your username looks really familiar, which makes me think I encountered your blog once or twice before. But I only recently got into the habit of subscribing to people. Back then I largely used Xanga to communicate my thoughts to real life friends, who have since left. I did subscribe to a few bloggers that caught my attention back then. Neuroticfitchmom was one of my favorite bloggers. She still blogs on Xanga, but not as regularly, to my knowledge, unless I missed some kind of protected list. Xanga has come a long way: http://web.archive.org/web/20031227073234/http://www.xanga.com/
You forgot the Kike, you loser. Why do they always forget the Kike?!
Every once in awhile I will read a blog that references the "Xanga drama," and I never know what they are speaking of and don't really care. However, I found this intelligent, mature look at the madness to be very enjoyable and informative -- so thank you!
. . .year after year the next bunch of newbie xangacelebs then getting put out by the next wave after them . . .and so it goes . . .metaxanganation is ever the same, just a different bunch of folks raising the same laments! - stopped bothering me about 8 years ago, but i keep seeing it happening again and again and again . . .: :rolleyes:
This was a wonderful and very well written post. I just came back to Xanga after being gone for a number of years. I have to say I was a little disheartened by some of the changes I noticed on Xanga when I started browsing blogs after I joined. However, I plan on keeping this Xanga, since Xanga still seems to have the best "community" environment out of all the other blogging sites. One sure thing about drama, it has a way of playing itself out. People generally get tired of it and move on to something else eventually.
Mike, you are someone I would like to know.
I've been on X since 2001 and only recently (last 6 months) have re-dedicated myself to the culture. But, like you, I steer clear of the drama, lies and foolishness. I write because I am a writer. Plain and simple. So for the sake of moving past formalities... Nice to meet you, Mike. 
I have been on xanga for quite awhile- my first blog shadowed_perfections must have been started around four years ago. I have never had a lot of comments or a lot of "followers". It's ok though- I love the people who are around and stick around. I was featured once, and I remember being delighted but also sad that I couldn't really comment back everyone or keep up with all of it very well. I think trying to be mega-popular really has more to do with feeling good about yourself because you must be interesting if you get a lot of comments. Whereas I would rather the comments from people I get to know who know me- building relationships. *shrugs* I always welcome new commenters and sometimes even subscribe, but I don't need to be popular to feel good.
@epitomeof_aberrance - Thanks for recommending this...
I thought that I was the only one who felt this way about Xanga. I think that it is time for a detox from Xangalebrities we need to go back to our roots. I have been on since Oct. 2004... and this site and my "xanga family" mean a lot more to me than finger pointing and fake beef.
Good lord.
Ive lost all respect for Xanga as a medium, except for the fact that it enables my voyeurism.
good luck with your "popularity" contest. :nono:
@baldmike2004 -
i wouldn't have been interested in the miley one. she seems very fake on tv and even in interviews but i think its the curse of being in holywood at such a young age. she may not know who she is with all the "crap" thrown on top of her.
I'm quite new on Xanga, and have been here only a few weeks, so I found this post fascinating. It certainly explains a lot. Thanks so much for this, and it is a well-written, entertaining post, so I can see why you have had long-term success on here.
Wow. A much needed "eye of the storm" as it were. I've been on Xanga in one form or another for five years now and have never cared much about a trillion friends myself and tend to ignore the drama with a roll of the eyes (and perhaps a post on the triviality of society). Good post.
I don't really know much about what xanga was back then but it seems like a nice community. And yes, drama will eventually pass.
Great post, Mike! I've always been happy in my own little quiet corner, still reading & commenting those I've known for years. I don't have either the stomach nor the time for drama, and so I miss 99.5% of it, and I'm not at all sorry that I do! :coolman:
The great thing about the Internet is that, if you don't want to read the drama, you don't have to. Thanks for sharing, and keep it up!
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