November 15, 2005

  • Taking Time versus Making Time


    An essay by Michael F. Nyiri 11/15/05



    "I just don't have the time."


    How many "times" do we hear this "excuse"? I hear it all the "time". At work. On the internet.Through the course of my life, almost every other person "doesn't have time". They are overtaxed, overworked, and overwhelmed. As the "age of information" piles more and more "things to do" onto our daily plate; news stories to read, blogs to peruse, entertainment not to be missed (and now even downloadable onto your ipod or cellphone!), we have to balance this with friends and family time, worktime, and some of us even need to reserve a few hours for sleep every night. Is is any wonder that people feel so pressed for "time" that they just don't have any more "time" to spend?


    Frankly, I hate the phrase, and I attempt not to use it. Time is the first religion. You might not know this, but before Christianity or Islam, before "time" as we know it, ancient man noticed the cyclical nature of sun and moon paths, and how when crops were planted and harvested at certain "times" of the year, they were able to prosper as a race of humans. Eventually, these cycles became "revered" and the sun and the moon attained celestial godlike powers for the humans who "worshipped" them. Even today, we "worship" the concept of time, even as we curse it.


    I would like to tell you that I have completely freed myself of the bonds of time, but when I look in the mirror of course I know this isn't true. Time may only exist in the mind of man. Minutes, hours, and days are just "conventions" man has invented in order to help him "count" these minutes hours and days. Time itself is "timeless". In the Universal, all time is relative. (Einstien said that too, and attempted to "prove" it with his "theory of relativity.") In the Universal, the past and the present coexist with the future at the same "time". A little to difficult a concept to grasp, I know, especially when we know that we only live a certain amount of "time" and then we perish.


    Indigenous peoples of the Earth, like the Lakota tribe of "Indians" in America, knew that the "rocks and the mountains" "lived" a lot longer than man. Man's "cycle" of life was much shorter. Hence, the "rocks and mountains" (which exist in geological time) were imbued with great spiritual powers. The "nature" of geology and the cosmos demanded respect, and worship. Rocks and mountains didn't "seem" to "age".


    Of course any trip to the Grand Canyon proves this "belief" wrong, in a way, but only from the Lakota's perception. Through a long course of "geologic" time, the Colorado River cut through the canyon, creating the magnificence we see when visiting today. Since it takes many "generations" for man to realize that there are changes in geologic time, early man didn't know that the earth was "taking it's time" as well.


    I know I only have a set period of "time" to do anything. That "time" can expire, like I can, "any time." Each moment is one in which I savor my existence, and I "attempt" or "try" to perform tasks, make plans, and interact with humanity with as much brio as possible. I don't like to tell anyone I "don't have the time". I tell them I will attempt to "make time."


    Time management is a skill I have studied, and I put it to work in my everyday life. I have found that I can deal with as many customers as call, I can handle as many projects as scheduled, and I can answer as many questions as asked, and I seem to be able to do this no matter what the quantity of customers, projects or questions exist.  In fact, in my position at work, if it is a "slow day" and they don't exist, I get bored very quickly, and I will find other tasks to perform, and sometimes find that I can "run out of time" because I always want to do more.


    This isn't to say that I don't get burned out. Usually, the Holiday Season is a slow "time" for our company, and there is more than enough "time" to create and ship the control panels ordered. This season, however, there is a large backlog, partially due to the fact that everyone seems to order generators and computer backup systems in "times" of disasters. And there have been many hurricanes this season in the Gulf and in Florida, where we have lots of customers. (The Y2K scare in 1999 generated more sales for our company than at any other "time" in my 16 year employment, since everyone thought they would need generators "when the lights went out" which of course didn't happen.) I am apt to field two dozen phone calls from customers. Vendors, who have been operating on a "stock as ordered" business model since the economy nosedived in 2001, are not ready to handle the business. Each project we build needs a lot of "engineering" which I do on my trusty computer. As more "labor saving devices" are built, more "labor" seems to be needed. I have three columns on the white board in my office. 1. "Orders", which need to be entered, and processed, which means I need to make sure all the components are correct, so something doesn't get purchased that isn't needed, or worse, something doesn't get purchased that is needed. 2. Master Documents, which need to be prepared, so the technicians can build the product, and 3. Quotes, which need to be researched, quoted, and sent to customers, usually on a deadline, so that we can secure more business. Items are continually being added to each column as quick as older items are being crossed off. Rarely can I proclaim I have 'completed' any list on any column, especially when it's "busy". I also test every panel we build, so sometimes it would seem as if I don't "have enough time" to complete everything. The "trick" to time management, is to realize that the cycles will continue, and to keep the "to do list" at a manageable length. I will "ask for help" if I feel I cannot "handle the load".


    Each email, fax, or phone call is logged. I peruse my "inbasket" (both the physical and the digital) many times a day. If I don't "lay eyes" on something, then I don't know it exists. But if I "look" at something two or three times without action, I know I'm not giving that item it's allotted "time". After looking at a dozen tasks or so that need to be performed, I usually perform the easiest first. I always attempt to handle the "older" work first, but I am learning to appreciate that I am not Superman, and cannot do the impossible. That is another clue to excellent time management.


    "I'll try to make time." is the "excuse" you will hear the most from me. Never "I don't have time." I have all the "time" that anyone else does. I might not have the use of geologic time at my disposal, since I will only live an ordinate amount of years, but with the "time" I have, I will try to use it wisely. I follow what I call the "squeaky wheel engineering model." The one who lets me know something is important. (Usually only because his customer is bugging him for delivery or a project) is the one who is usually at the top of my to do list. (Unless he's just ordered something, in which case he can wait. We adjust our lead times for delivery during the quoting process based on work backlog.) I don't "lie" to anyone, and I get lots of customers, so this means I'm doing something "right" and not "wrong" no matter how many customers with which I am dealing. If someone tells me his project is "not important at this time", he tells me the "wrong thing" and his project goes to the "bottom of the pile."


    Time management is almost zenlike in nature, based as much on intuition and chance as on actual learned skills. I will always "make time", but I will never claim I don't have any. It takes moments to process information. In the information age, we have lots of computer generated "shortcuts". When I look around the desks of the offices around me, no matter to whom they belong, chances are they are filled with folders, papers, manuals, and the detritus of the business at hand. My desktop is clear however. I have neat little "piles" of "things to do". My computer "desktop" is relatively clear as well. I try not to keep anything in "tickler" files. Each item needs attention of a certain sort, and each item is dealt with. I take great pride in "concentrating" on those items with which I feel I will never be able to deal, and because of this concentration, I am usually able to satisfy most every one that wants or needs something.


    Time is really nonexistent, and we should always live in the moment, as if it were our last, because we never know how much "time" we have left. But that "clock" on my office wall keeps ticking. It keeps telling me that I have unfinished work to do. And what am I doing right now? I am preparing this blog entry about time management skills. I have the "time" to do this, because I know pretty much what to expect today, and my "day" is already planned, as it was when I left work yesterday afternoon. If I find myself getting overwhelmed, I take a break, and figure out what is the best way to tackle what needs to be done. Processing information, developing a game plan, and acting upon it, are the steps to be taken. I find I can usually "make time" for anything.


    So please don't ever tell me you don't have time.

Comments (55)

  • So very true, my friend! I have to remind myself of this often. Thank you!

  • Interesting...you didn't mention much about procrastination, though. If someone is just being stupid and doing something with their time when that time should really be spent doing something else, then it really does feel like one runs out of time. And I think it's a bit different in school than in the workforce. Sometimes a workload is just too heavy, even with advance planning. I have friends who had so many papers and tests in a week, that they had to choose which was more important, because there wasn't enough time to prepare for all of them.

    I like this entry, though. Have you considered submitting it to the Featured Grownups Book Project? The deadline is tonight at midnight.

    Oh, and I went to the Wal-Mart documentary and wrote about it last night. I'd be interested to read what you have to think about it. Have a good day!

    ~Jenny

  • Well, Mike, you know what my views on the time issue are, since you commented on my article only a week or so ago - in my understanding, time simply does not exist.  It cannot exist, in ultimate reality, that is.  Humans, however, have a knack for creating a box to put familiar things in - it makes us feel safe, I guess.

    Hang in there with the blogring - I can only hope and assume that the initial weight will be releived with forward motion.  Let me know if there is anything I can do.  What I could do I have no idea, but the offer stands, anyway.

    John

  • We have all the time we wish to make...

  • Time and tide wait for no man.....

  • Dear Mike,

    This is a great post, though ... the whole time reading it I kept thining of the Culture Club song ... "time won't give me time, and time makes others feel like they have something real ... "

    I love Culture Club, what can I say ... I've got music on the brain. Hope you have a lovely time today at work!

    Love,
    Liz

  • Good points; hence why I stabbed my watch.

    Or maybe I'm just violent.

    Sorry about the lazy commenting...busy days and such.

  • it's a matter of priorities - and some times other things move to a higher priority and thus, something falls in position- it's all about the jockeying for position! :wave: and it doesn't help that i have a to-do list that requires a world famous juggler to accomplish and when i drop something, i step back and watch stuff hit the floor! so- yeah, i'm careful, timewise....:love:

  • I'm glad I took some time to read your essay ... what helps me to avoid rushing things - which creates the false sense of never having enough time - is to do only those things that I know to be the most important to do at this very moment, and to enjoy doing them. To enjoy doing them and wholeheartedly so, is what I especially find important, because the more fun I have, the less relevant an issue time seems to become.

  • I understand completely.  thanks for the essay and showing "us" how to manage our "time" or possible lack thereof.  peace out and take care.  autumn

  • Hi Mike,
    Thanks for the welcome and I'll try to do better the next time I post. This is a good post - when you get to be my age, sometimes you have too much time on your hands. I once thought I'd never have enough time to do all the things I am interested in, and that is still partially true. Some of the things I'd like to do are prohibitive due either to my physical abilities now and financial constraints. I do what I can though and enjoy each day. I don't have any paintings displayed on the net, but may try to get that done in the future. Thanks again for the welcome and the advice.

  • I think I have plenty of time to do stuff but then there are good shows on TV or I'm busy reading comments or writing comments, that take me away from the tasks at hand. Each day I make a list of what I need to accomplish that night or the weekend. I could get a lot more done but it all works out.

  • "Peace is when time doesn't matter as it passes by."  --Maria Schell

  • It's a choice... I choose how to spend each moment in time!  I can make time for what ever I wish.  Some days in my field of work I am frustrated with those who choose not to take responsiblity for their use of time!

  • Good reminder, Mike. I have never said I dont have time that I remember, atleast not in a long time.
    Like you said, time is non exsistent.
    But then again, when you think about it, time seems to fly by at times.
    Take care,

    Peace and Love:)

  • "I don't have time"! :laugh: Sorry Mike, I couldn't resist saying it. :wink: You are quite right in what you've said here. I got tired of hearing people who used to come along to dog training classes telling me, 'I didn't have time', when making excuses as to why they hadn't put in the training with their dog. :rolleyes: It's all based on priorities. Even when I was working full time, I made time to train my dogs to a high competition level. As I said, time really is how people see their priorities in life, and whether they can really be bothered to do whatever the task is at hand.

    Thought provoking blog! :goodjob:

  • I seem to be in a constant battle with time. Deadlines always seem to hit at the same time, no matter how much I plan. There is always one factor I cannot change, and that is the other people involved.

    I do find that situations seem to go better when I have no time table that I need to work by. Things get done, the children are happy, life is just a lot better.

  • Not a single mention of how time "flies?" Especially as one ages? :)

    Thanks for the timely encouragement. :sunny:

  • I will read this 'when I have the time'. :laugh:

    Stolen,spent, wasted, invested,lost, given, borrowed, taken, stopped, frozen, slowed, made, managed. We talk about time like it exists. The thingz people reify, the thingz people glorify. :spinning:

    Doc.

  • :sunny:I thought I left a comment!!!!  I sure remember typing it ...I must have not hit submit!????????

    Anyway here I am.   My Dad had a saying regarding time." If you don't have time to do it right the first time; don't waste my time!" He had that written on a smooth large river rock. The rock is lost but I still remember him saying that ......:goodjob:

  • Mike.
    I like this blog entry.
    I get the point that "I'll try to make time" is a better answer than "I don't have time", even if, if one already knows that he won't probably be able to make time, the meaning of the two answers is the same.
    From the point of view of somebody that have that answer from a request, "I'll try to make time" give the hope that he won't probably be served, but that there will be the attitude to try, atleast. While "I don't have time" means that the request won't be served, even if, as an inprobable case, some time would be found to serve it.
    From the point of view of somebody that gave that answer to a request, "I'll try to make time" means that if just he finds a little hole in his schedule he will be busy to serve that request. "I don't have time" means that the request is not important as anything else that has to be done, so, the responsability of finding some time to spend for that request is unloaded.
    I'll try to use "cerchero' di trovare il tempo" more often than "non ho tempo"

    But the thing is how you plan your amount of time which, as you say, is anyway limited.
    One possibility is to plan any minute of time with the most important things that have to be done. But in that way it can happen that, for anything unplanned, or less important, there won't be enough time.
    Another possibility is to plan also the less important things, giving time to things like "blogging" or "admiring the sunset" some time, never mind if tasks as "go to pick the children from school" or "cook the dinner for the husband" are apparently more important. "I need my space for admiring the sunset, so there must be time for that".
    A third possibility is not to plan anything at all, and do whatever one feel is to be done at each moment.
    Personally i prefer to plan any single second of my life so that i can do as much things as i can, but trying to be able to change the schedule any moment if i find something that just has to be done in that moment.

    I remember, when i used to play music, a question from a singer that had the opportunity to join two different bands contemporarily and she asked me a suggestion of which one to choose, as she felt that joining both could be too much time consuming.
    Since both the opportunities were, in my opinion, wonderful for hers, i just answered that she had to join both the bands.
    So, she asked me if that answer means something like that i prefer to do everything just in an ordinary way instead of doing only few things as the best.
    Obviously my answer is always that i prefer to do as best everything.
    I am not superman, so that is not always possible. But atleast i try.

    ciao
    dario

  • Hi Mike! :wave:

    The only reason I am able to leave this comment is due to learned time management... and my being an early riser... and coffee...

    BE blessed!
    Steve :spinning:

  • I had time to read your article but no time to read the comments. ::grins:: What is time really? Isnt it a bit of an oxymoron to say you dont 'have' any time? Think about it for a minute. There really isnt such thing as time to begin with. Take it back to where you started your article. They didnt measure time as we do today did they, back when the sun and moon controlled all the normal activities. Look at it this way. Time is merely a human parameter set up to define and control his present environment. If you or I go out into space, sure, we will bring our 'concept' of time with us right? But in theory... if say we are out in space for five years by our current standard of measuring of time but have been traveling at the speed of light. What happens when we go back to Earth... the citizens of Earth will not look the same as we remember them. They will have aged more than that five years we were gone. That is theory mind you. So... how is time then measured? Hmmmm food for thought! And here I've no time to be doing this! ::laughs:: Okay, Time... balance is the key that I am finding out myself. I had a kind of mini-crisis here the other week and kind of lost my footing, wasnt sure how to prioritize... I had to just step back and take in a broader view. I grew and once again changed. I am so new to all of this so adding it to everything I do do, well, it took some time to find maintain it all. Now I am having a blast again with Xanga and of course, I do not go to everyone's blogs anymore or even feel compelled to. I do the best I can the same as everyone else! Time management is a skill and too it is an art I think. We can be creative about it and too we can be analytical about it no?

    You have an awesome day Mike ::Hugs::
    RYC:(quotes Arnold from Terminator... "I'll be back")
    (starts humming the song by Little River Band "here I am" in response to his Barbra Streisand song...) And I beg to differ Sir Mike, I most assuredly would have found and DID find your first comment! I keep an eye on my feedback log! ::grins:: I've found that a lot of people do not solely comment on the top entry alone especially when you get involved in a lot of things on here. Take care of you!

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  • Heck, I'll go for making you a good solid 25 comments today... Love the new pic of you!

  • Yep, I see the parallels.

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