August 28, 2005
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During my childhood we moved around a lot. And after I grew up I moved just as much, totalling 20 apartments or rented homes in 20 years. I was born outside of Boise, Idaho, in a small town called Nampa, but we moved from there to Los Angeles before I turned five. Since then, the names of the burgs might be different, Silver Lake till age 6, Highland Park till age 7, El Monte till age 18, Glendora till my parents died when I turned 21. All these suburbs are part of the “greater Los Angeles area” a sprawling metropolis crisscrossed by probably the most convoluted freeway system in the world. I’ve been all around the area known as “Southern California” and would have to label “Los Angeles” as “my hometown”, although I actually spent most of my youth in the “barrio” town of El Monte, about 30 miles east of Downtown L.A. In the early 70s I moved to the Torrance/Lomita area, and besides a sideturn into Long Beach/Bellflower in the early 90s , I have been established here in Lomita since. We have a saying in the L.A. area. Everywhere is just 20 minutes away. Now most “freeways” are packed with cars during the all important and ever increasing “drive times” and they have been somewhat chancey lately, with a rash of “freeway shootings” to add to the normal “neighborhood driveby” but on the whole, if asked, I would have to say, “My hometown, then and now, is L.A., “La Ciudad de Los Angeles”, the City of the Angels, on the southern coast of California, the Last Frontier of mainland America.
This is a view of the York Avenue bridge in Highland Park, which crosses over the Pasadena Freeway, built in the late 40s as the “Arroyo Seco Parkway”, the very first freeway in L.A. I lived at the right hand edge of this bridge in a cul de sac that doesn’t exist anymore, and was replaced by a huge apartment block back in the late 60s. I lived in the Highland Park area of L.A. till the year 1960, when we moved to El Monte
The image above was recently used for my “Childhood in Los Angeles” autobiographical entry and shows my sister and I in the yard of the rented home in Highland park, one of the “tunnels” leading under Elysian Park, and one of the “red car” electric trains that were popular in L.A. up until the mid 50s.
The house to which we moved in 1960 is in El Monte, which is not now considered one of the more “upscale” suburbs of L.A., and this is a current view of the house in which I grew up from 1960 to 1971, when, upon my graduation from high school, my mother had an incessant need to “escape the Mexicans” and we packed our bags and moved the family to Glendora, in the foothills of the San Gabriel Mountains. Our house in the 60s didn’t have this type of fence. My mother created a “rock garden” around the front lawn, and the “fence” which has since been torn down, was a “rock fence” constructed with heavy boulders we would get from the desert, cemented into place. The walls of the house are still covered in “asbestos siding” which is cancerous. The “part of town” in which my childhood home still sits is not that “nice” and I took this photo while in the car driving by.
I graduated from Rosemead High School in 1971, and this is photo from one of my yearbooks showing the front of the school, which still stands, albeit a different color, and it now has razor wire and tall fences around the perimeter. L.A. has changed somewhat over the years, and with each succeeding decade, the populace is said to become more insular, and less friendly. I don’t find this particularly true, and I still enjoy taking walks “around town” in a lot of familiar areas. There are dangers lurking in certain sections of “town” however, and most “locals” know which parts to speed through on the freeway when on the way to someplace else.
This is a current view (from 2004) of the house to which our family moved in 1971, although it doesn’t bear that much of a resemblance to the house when we lived there. As you can see, the foothills are very close in the distance. Our home was merely three blocks from the base of the mountains, and Mount Baldy was a short but twisting distance away up into the mountains. The neatest thing about living in the L.A. area is it’s diversity of place. Less than an hour drive down Highway 39. which is the main street in Azusa, next to Glendora, and you hit Huntington Beach, where I spent many a hot summer afternoon in the early 70s.
This is the “concrete pier” at Huntington. The photo was taken in early 2004, on what would be a “winter” day in most parts of the country, but was a hot early spring “beach day” in L.A. Huntington Beach is actually in Orange County, and I’ve spent time at many beaches along the coast. “Everybody has an ocean”, to quote the Beach Boys, and I don’t think I could live anywhere in the center of the country, where I couldn’t get to the ocean in less than 10 minutes.
Of course one cannot talk about L.A. without mentioning Hollywood. I spent a lot of my Friday nights on Sunset Blvd. and Hollywood Blvd. during the 70s and early 80s hanging out at clubs like the Roxy, the Starwood, and the Whiskey a Go Go. L.A. and Hollywood are forever linked in the eye of the public, and even though most movies, even in the days of the great studios like MGM and Paramount, were filmed in Culver City and parts of the valley and not acutally in the city of Hollywood itself, Hollywood has always had a certain sort of charm for Angelenos. This part of “town” fell into disrepair during most of the 70s after the movie business changed to independent producers, and in the 21st century, the city is being shined and polished once more in an effort to attract tourism.
Back to the streets of downtown Los Angeles. We have always had a lot of “space” but the high rises and skyscrapers which now account for most of the real estate in the Bunker Hill district and the northwest part of town still pale, in my eye, to our “original skyscraper” the City Hall building, here photographed last weekend during my “subway trip photo expedition” of which I shall post some more photos later in the week. City Hall was my “focal point” and gave me my bearings while my dad drove us around during my youth. It was the tallest building around for miles.
Now my hometown is almost “unrecognizable” from memory’s viewpoint, but since I’ve lived here all my life, the growth spurts are somewhat gradual, and the “old” mixes well with the “new” and I always feel like I’m “home” no matter where in the vast metropolis I am at any given time. I have many “folders” in my Webshots Gallery dedicated to different areas of ”the city”.
Here again is my poem, “You Can Never Go Home Again” written for the entry with that title.
“You Can Never Go Home Again”
Poetry by Michael F. Nyiri
July 11, 2005 4:00 p.m. pdt
Memories, sadly, are all that remain
As an exhuberant life swirls down the drain
Singing party songs and dirges, verse and refrain
“You can never go home again.”
Home was a house where a childhood was spent
Upon a hill overlooking the roadway out of town
The street now is gone, and the memories get sent
Into oblivion when thrown on the ground.
Bulldozers have no heartbeat
As they destroy the realities of youth
And after years pass, muddied the street
And lies surely replace what was truth
Memories, sadly, melt in the sand
And the spectre of now lies in a cold hand
Open to possibilities unbound
But the drear echo of memory makes not a sound
Memories, sadly, are all that remain
When the streetlamps of solace still stain
And you stop singing the songs, and forget the refrain
“You can never go home again
All of the photos posted in this entry are my own photographs with the exception of the yearbook photo which was scanned and enhanced in the Picture Publisher program. This entry was inspired by an entry on the Featured Content for Grownups Blogring site. I just joined this blog ring yesterday, so this post was created rather quickly. Some of the other members of the blogring have had a little more time to construct their entries, so apologies if this seems rather “rushed” or “cobbled together”. The owner of the blogring, Denise ( p8indme) posted about members writing a blog entry with the theme “My Hometown”. The originator of the idea is John Jr. (DoWhaChaDo89) In his Aug. 24th entry, John Jr. writes: “The point is no matter where you grew up we want to hear about about it. Take us your xanga friends on a journey to that place you will always call home. That’s right… post about your hometown. Tell us the places in your hometown that were special and why they meant something to you”
I frequently write about growing up in L.A. and thought this was a neat “challenge”. I must admit I have only just joined this ring, but I admire Denise’s ideas and so I jumped in feet first. This is a great blogring for most of my regular readers, and I came upon it through Paulette’s (paulygrl) site. I don’t know if she’s participating, but Denise writes in her Featured Content for Grownups Aug. 28th entry: “When you have posted your blog, leave a comment(on the Featured Content entry), and I will link to your site so that everyone can see your “masterpiece”.WE WANT TO MAKE FEATURED CONTENT WITH THIS!!I’d like to see EVERYONE that posts make Featured. HERE are your instructions!1.) Check back here regulalry for updates! 2.) Go to the sites posted!3.) LEAVE PROPS FOR THEM!!!We can only be Grownups with Content WORTH being FEATURED if everyone works together here. There are 253 people to date in the blogring. All that’s needed to make FC is about 40 Props usually, which means 20 comments…QUICKLY! We can do this, and take over Featured. ”
KUDOS to both Denise and to John Jr, whom I haven’t “met” yet. Here is my entry, and as I look at the clock on the computer, I don’t want to think about how long I’ve been “assembling” this little “cobbled together” entry, and it’s too long, but what isn’t? I’m home “sick” this weekend and haven’t left my rooms. I don’t have the stamina to get out have a terrible cough, which has stuck to me for two weeks now, and my cataract surgery is coming up in a week and a half. I plan to go to San Francisco for a mammoth “photo expedition” over the Labor Day holiday, but don’t feel like doing ANYTHING today, except participate in the Xangasphere, of course. It keeps my mind “off my cough.”
One Last Photo, and it has been featured on a PhotoPost before, but I like it, and it shows palm trees and a beautiful cloudscape. This is from Ocean Blvd. in Long Beach, the city where I’ve worked for the last 16 years, so certainly has to be included in any article about “My Hometown.”
EDIT: 2:34 p.m. pdt: Katrina is a Category 5 hurricane, and is headed toward New Orleans. My prayers are with the residents of that historic “hometown” including people I know. Evcuations are occuring, and I’m listening to updates right now on the computer. “Andrew” in Miami in 1992 and “Camille” in Louisiana from 1969 which killed hundreds of people were the last two Category 5 hurricanes to strike the United States.










Comments (59)
Much moving around brings many new perspectives, which I’m sure have served you well. After reading your post, I have a kinder, gentler vision of LA. Thanks!
I have a list of places I want to visit before I’m dead and LA is one of them. Thank you for sharing the pics and a part of your life!!!
The pictures are GREAT!!! Must have been interesting moving around so much. Great poem.
I always enjoy hearing about the different places where people grew up, and the photos are wonderful. Your poem is very touching, very true.
RYC: Thanks for the kind words! I’m glad you enjoyed the post! Be reading you. . .
i had 3 homes as a chile…but travelled like crazy since my stepmom was in the airlines:coolman:
:wave: Hi Mike!
Thanks for all the info in your comments on my site! I need to email you, tho, for there are a few things I could share with you that are not for the public. Terry WAS a genius and at time seemed embarrassed by that. He would go into what I call a “lock down” to suppress thoughts he was afraid would label him intellectually superior. I think this was partly because his father repeatedly called him “stupid”. Probably, his father feared him. At age eight Terry was tested and found to have the IQ of a Mensa member. I sorrow for the fact that Terry’s life was cut short. Had he been given more time, he could have learned to be unafraid of his intellect thru his connections with people such as you. I am entranced by your idea to make his poems remain forever. Let us see what can be done!
Los Angeles sounds much like Toronto..great post and lovely pics!
After that fucking amusement fest, you get a subscription. I’m only subscribed to 89 people, but I guess I can up that to 90. If you produce comments and entries like this, I know I’ll be amused. Hell, I might link to you if it’s an exceptional entry.
I can’t write long comments. I lose focus and get too arrogant.
That was a really great post Mr. Mike! I’m just getting here now to comment because I was away. Actually Shahrazad was blogsitting the Featured_Grownups site, and she was the one who added you so quickly!
I loved reading your walk down memory lane, along with viewing all of your photos. I really was engrossed! Thanks so much for being a part of this, and for your kind words about me and the blogring! I’m so glad you have joined us!
Hope you are feeling better soon, and that you have a great week!
~Denise~
That was a nice post about your home town — I am not sure where I claim — I was born in Orlando, FL, we moved to Atlanta, GA, Lima, OH and finally to Nebraska — I did attend and finish high school in NE but I raised my children in MO and now I am back to OH –
To me, home is where my husband and I are — so for now it is OH
I like the picks – especially the water hitting the pier
Pam
Thank you for the comments on my poems. I look forward to hearing much more from you in the future. I can really relate to your poem. I grew up in a military town in the south which has gone through quite a bit of change. The neighborhood I grew up in went from being rural with lots of woods for exploration to Burger King on the corner. But the bulldozers did do justice by taking down a street of topless bars which became infamous during the 70′s when our town was affectionately called “FayetteNam”.
Excellent job! I almost took a job in Torrence early this year, but I ended up in Florida instead.
BE blessed!
Steve :spinning:
props
Terriffic post. I like the pictures too. Thanks for participating! This was a great idea.
Hello Mike ,
I joined the blog to read grown up sites.
I wasn’t going to do a my hometown post. I have no way to post images, or knowledge. I just was too consumed with New Orleans today. Thank you for your comments.
Having read your blog , I remember the entry about moving and where your dad worked. Other things. We all have our own image of Los Angeles, I have been there , but didn’t get to do much site seeing . I did visit La Holla and San Diego.
I love your hometown. I like your blog about it , very nice. As usual you’re very thurough. I hope the best for N.O. Which in my mind, should be my hometown. I spent alot of time there when I was married my ex husbands sister owns a house in the French Quarters, beautiful , seemed a little magical to me.
Take care.
Peace andLove:)
Glad you joined the blog , Denise is a sweet lady.
I love how you added poetry to your hometown entry–I’ll be back to read more after touring the other hometown entries.
I enjoyed reading your post about L.A. I especially loved the photo of the City Hall building with the phone in the foreground. The perspective is incredible! I too just joined this blogring, and expect to post my hometown entry in the next day or two. Nice to read you!
~TaunaLen
I enjoyed your entry for the great use of images and also for your view of Los Angeles. I only know the socal region through the suburb and inland empire of Riverside County, so it’s great to see real LA turf.
yes you are correct i am princesskittypoo as well. i’ve had several aliases and if i had to explain everything that has happened since last year i would know where to begin but not how to explain anything. does that make since? i have since found out i’ve caused a lot of people a great many worries. and lost a lot of people by doing so. if i caused you worry i’m sorry. i didn’t realize it was the 13th of october. how strange. that number is becoming more significant everyday.
Great post!! I lived 21 years in that part of Idaho. Then I moved to Oceanside, Ca, just south of LA. Now I am stuck in Missouri…..I can’t wait to get back to California!!! Have a nice night!
Sarah
Dear Readers.
I have previously mentioned that I could conceivably comment on my entries in a “comment” on my own site, so since this will be the 20th comment before the clock turns to 12 midnight eastern time, I don’t know whether posting my own “comment” qualifies me for “Featured Content” but I am visibly thanking Denise for her “Featured content for grownups” blogring. Which might make this possible.Dear Shahrazad1973, I have always tried in my writing to dispel the notion that L.A. is “hell”. It’s actually a “hell” of a nice place to live. Dear Tracy and Jaimie, “moving around” the same city, but different areas,serves to make one fully cognizant of his area. Like Randy Newman, “I love L.A.” Dear Suzanne, Thank you so much. Dear Marshall, your perspective is always welcome. Dear Bev, we’ll talk. Terry was a treasure, and I’d love to be able to tell him in the Univesal Consciousness that I helped to further his legacy on Earth. Dear Tam, I’m in love with you, hope your husband don’t mind. Dear DMV, I think this is the beginning of a beautiful friendship. Dear Denise, Can I thank you enough. I don’t think so. Dear Pam, Carmen, and everybody else, Thanks thanks thanks. I don’t really know what more to say at this point. And I want to see, of course, if this comment from “moi” becomes my 20th comment. I’m so evil.
Michael F. Nyiri, poet, philosopher, fool.
You lured me in with the oh-so-familiar photo of the tunnel on the 110 through downtown to the hopelessly inadequate 1 lane exit on to I-5. Hence the long line of cars in the far left lane…obviously
I too wrote about Los Angeles, though from the perspective of a young woman–a woman four years out of college, fresh out of law school, and currently living as far away from LA as she can be (without crossing the Pond).
Thank you for the lovely account of the city I so love.
If only my vast horde of jealous unimaginative critics were able to derive a factor of amusement from my site as you do. Alas, they jealously snarl at my entries and mock my photographs and call me pretentious.
But, so long as I know somebody’s enjoying it, I’ll keep writing.
Watch the computers! I’m fairly certain they watch us…
Dear Mr. Mike,
I’ve been reading your comments to everyone with “Hometown” entries throughtout the day, and I’ve been seeing you mention my name alot. You’re comments are very flattering, but I do have to say that I am not the only brains behind this blogring. It really is a collective thing, even the beginning of the blogring was collective. I just have been the one to put it in action. Actually, most of the ideas and creativeness of the ring have come from Dowhachado89. I have to give him the credit. He’s the crazy one….
I’m enjoying reading your comments along the way almost as much as I enjoyed your entry!
Wow…it’s like reading a giant online scrapbook!! How cool is this?!
wow, I just loved reading about your hometown, I love what you did with the background, as I was redaing, I felt as though I was there. The photo of you and your sister looks almost ghostly! It’s really well done. The house changed so much, yet, you could still recognize it. I give you an A+ on your entry
Nat
Sadly, many of those dear folks from New Orleans may never be able to “go home again.” Nice poem. Greetings, City of the Angels, from Vero Beach, “Where The Tropics Begin.”
Hi Mike , I see you are still awake, or maybe getting up. I have been awake all night watching coverage of Katrina on aol . It is bad, but so far not as bad as it could be. I hope it doesn’t flood that city. No power there, generators. I’m hoping the best for all in that hurriccanes path. We are feeling a bit of her here 20 – 30 mph winds and rain.
Have a good day.
Peace and Love:)
Beautiful pictures!!! Thank you for sharing!!
Hi, I came here from dowha land. He is my nephew. Thanks for your insight into your home town. I’ve always lived inland. In fact my children have never been to a lake that you couldn’t see the otherside. Perhaps some day…. I also see that you are heading into the shade age wise. I’m getting use to the idea little by little. Unfortunately, my father and both sets of inlaws have passed on. My mom lives in the nursing home, bless her heart. for me, my hometown lives within my heart.
Amazing post and beautiful pics….
Dear Mike,
I am so honored to have a reader like you. And thank you for all those wonderful comments. You are always welcome to read my blog anytime.
It’s great to know more about LA. Through this “Home Town” week, I am getting a good grip to some of the important places/town in your country.
Good Day.
- Boogley
that was a nice glimpse into your hometown past- thanks for sharing.
I love the pictures! Good work! I think my favorite one is of the children blended into the photo of a cable car.
Hello Mike, Glad you joined us at Featured Grown Ups. Thank you for sharing about your hometown.
Id love to read all of that……
but Im not going to
Gee, you graduated highschool the same year I did. That makes me feel old. I can work the ketjasite into a more obvious home town site. I moved to Oakland when I was 6 weeks old. My grandfather moved to Dimond,
a town that was overrun by sprawl. He was cooking with Gas at the St. Francis and got something that made it difficult to stand or walk. The Doctor told him to move to Oakland where the air was cleaner. He bought a small bar and grill there with a cullinary workers union sign proudly featured in the window.
I remember the Union Hall where the old men hung around. He and I
were thick as mud until I got too big and he too old to catch me.
If your town was overrun by Japanese or you are Japanese or your father was Flying Tiger please write a little bit about it at
Oh yeah, and if you never were able to live in your home town because the Nazi’s carried you off you can visit a very sad selection of Camp photos at Nueremberg You may write your stories down at Swansong
Dear Mike,
I enjoyed your trip through time as you took me through your colorful life with pazaazzz! California is my kind of town; I lived in San Francisco for a few years where my younger brother was born. Lived right on the beach in a ‘stilt’ house; boy was it cool…I can still remember roasting potatoes in the sand…those were the days, oh sweet taste of yesterday’s day, the fruit of my youth…*sigh* I love to deep sea fish, so even now I still find myself in San Diego, Mission Bay to be exact, where we charter a party boat and go fishing…oh I love it, been doing it now for years and years…I throw out a mean line and have fished with the best of ‘em. We’ve even been to Mexico and deep sea fished for marlin and sail…oh you bring back such memories…
thanks for the kudos as you mention me in your post, you are a sweetheart…and thanks to Denise too for all her efforts here and for all the other cool people that care enough about xanga to do such a grand thing. This has really turned out well…hooray!
take care hon, chat soon, hope you’re feeling better kiddo…
hugs,
paulygrl
Hello there Mr.Mike….I have been to LA while living in Alaska. I know the call of the Ocean we shared. I now live inland and enjoy the midwest…cornfields and soybeans for my view. But one thing for sure…They don’t have the good seafood i got use tofrom the Pacific Ocean. Have a good day.
Hi Mike! Thanks for subscribing to my site! I’m reciprocating! You just liked that I think bald men are sexy, didn’t you??:shysmile:
I’m slowly making it around to all the hometown entries – life has been busy this week. I enjoyed the tour of LA – it is a city that is so often heard of but usually from the aspect of the rich and famous. I liked hearing about the city from the standpoint of a hometown boy. Thanks for your kind words on my post.
You have put together a good post! I’ve been to LA on vacation, but it was way too big for me!
awesome awesome awesome poem! I can’t imagine growing up in a city!
This has been really cool – I grew up in LA in your post brought back some very fond memories :sunny:
Mike, I have seen you all over the place today!!! good for you.. I love your hometown and used to visit it all the time,, thanks for the walk down memory lane
I enjoyed reading your comments regarding my Philadelphia story. But, I most enjoyed your hometown tale of Los Angeles. The reason I enjoyed it so much is because now it is also my hometown. I left Philadelphia to relocate in LA 22 years ago, so I guess this is really my new hometown. And yes, I live in the suburbs, north by Magic Mountain. My daughter commented on your picture of the Interstate 5 exit off the 110 downtown. My first encounter with that almost became my last. Nothing can prepare a person for LA freeway driving. I was in a rental car and had never been on the freeways before. Ugh, that connection. I came to a complete stop because it is such an odd exit ramp. Thank God it was 1983 and there were no freeway shooters at the time. I’m sure I would be dead right now.
Interesting hometown entry! I’ve never been to Calf. Truth is I’ve never been any further west than Ohio.
Thanks for sharing!
Having grown up in Sna Diego, I have a natural distaste for LA… especially the Dodgers.
However, while I wouldn’t want to live their, I am fascinated by the history of the city, which reflects much of the history of California… and I enjoy my visits to LA.
Thanks for sharing.
Mike, Great post, and I love the poem…would be so cool to let the people of New Orleans that even california is concerned, would love to share with United way.. be safe
:goodjob:SUPER job Mike thanks for sharing this with us…Props from the North Coast
I grew up in Silverlake, too. At least I lived there until I was 11. Off of Sunset and Silverlake. Interesting, too, that we’re planning on moving to the Boise area next year!
Lisa
What a great tour of your hometown!!
Great piece on City of Angels…
BTW…We look very much alike…almost doubles…if anyone gives you a bad time blame it on me…thank you for the vote on award for most humorous entry…glad you enjoyed it…
I haven’t ventured far outside of Kansas, thank you for the pictures! I especially love the pictures of the ocean, that is something I would love to have.
Nice! :sunny:
Wow!!! Beautiful pictures!!! Great post!!!
The whole lot you cry can be proper this is the thing I mull over
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